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First Person

I Would Grow My Hair To Cover the City

I imagine myself as not myself, at my grandparents’ apartment this Christmas, wearing makeup, a women’s blouse, long hair combed to the middle of my back: What he thought I would grow up to be, what my mom thought I would grow up to be.

Whitney Pow January 3, 2014 79 Comments
Movie Features

Bechdel-Passing Blockbusters of 2013 Made The Most Money for Hollywood

Of the top 50 movies of 2013, those that pass the Bechdel test outperformed those that did not by 1.56 billion dollars.

Brittani January 2, 2014 21 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Angel Haze and Hannah Hart Dance in the Snow

Hannah Hart made a movie, Angel Haze made a video, and a woman passes out on live television. They all learn how to contemporary dance in this video party.

Brittani January 2, 2014 12 Comments
Music

Make Them Apologize: Ani DiFranco Says Sorry For Plantation Retreat But Many White Fans Still Won’t

Many fans had their faith in Ani DiFranco restored today when she finally said “I’m sorry” — while many fans lost faith in much of Ani’s fanbase, who continue insisting she did nothing wrong.

Riese January 2, 2014 90 Comments
Life

Dear Queer Diary: Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger

I am a New Year’s Resolutions skeptic, but this year will be a little different.

Maggie January 2, 2014 5 Comments
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Queer Girl Mini Guide: Cleveland, Ohio and the Gay Games

Positively Cleveland and the Gay Games invited Autostraddle to take a look at their facilities for the games and experience some of food and fun Cleveland has to offer the impending influx of queermos.

A.E. Osworth January 2, 2014 17 Comments
Love + Sex

Body as a Second Language: Navigating Queer Girl Culture on the Autism Spectrum

“For me, reading and speaking body language is like communicating in any foreign language — I concentrate hard, stumble, and make embarrassing errors. Turns out other queer autistic people have this problem too.”

Emily January 2, 2014 82 Comments
Health

Who’s Afraid of Riding a Bicycle? Not You Because We Have 5 Tips for Beginners

Here are 5 tips for making your cycling-related resolutions at least 50% more likely to stick. (Well, maybe.)

Fikri January 2, 2014 33 Comments
U.S. Supreme Court Associate Justice Sonia Sotomayor prepares to push the Waterford crystal button that signals the descent of the New Year's Eve Ball. Via Daily Mail.
Politics + Activism

In 2013’s Final Hours, Sotomayor Issues Temp Stay On Contraceptive Mandate

Couldn’t you think of a better way to spend the last day of 2013, Justice Sotomayor? Maybe clean out your freezer? Flip your mattress? Rotate your tires?

Laura Mandanas January 2, 2014 8 Comments
Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: Testing Out Your New Year’s Resolution in a Snow Storm

This year I’m going to test out all my crazy new styles right in the middle of snow storms. Starting with thigh-high stockings over tights.

Lizz January 1, 2014 11 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Why We Really Need Gay Bars and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The more we talk about things, the better they get. 2013 was proof.

Carmen January 1, 2014 14 Comments
Gender

35 Trans Women I Had #Herocrushes On In 2013

A #herocrush isn’t romantic or sexual, it’s about people you admire. People you’d love to work with to dismantle systems of oppression. This year most of my #herocrushes happened to be trans women.

Mey January 1, 2014 23 Comments
Geekery

“The Strumpet” Brings Together 22 Ladies to Make Great Comics About Taste

In it’s third volume, all-lady comic collection “The Strumpet” brings us tales from 22 different women all centered around the idea of taste- whatever that means to the artist.

Mey January 1, 2014 2 Comments
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New Year’s OPEN THREAD 2014: Braver / Bolder Edition

Here’s how we’re gonna be brave and bold in the new year. What about you?

the team December 31, 2013 77 Comments
Holigays Playlists

Playlist: New Year’s, No Fears

This is a good time, self-reassurance, “you’re about to OWN the new year” kind of party. You got this.

Lauren December 31, 2013 3 Comments
First Person

15 Fears I Faced in 2013, With a Little Help From Autostraddle

I’ve been afraid to do so many things. This year, thanks to Autostraddle, I looked those fears in the eye, took action and started living my life the way I want to live it.

Mey December 31, 2013 39 Comments
Music

Idol Worship: What the Spice Girls Taught Me About Feminism

The Spice Girls were, for a really fucking long time, the only women showing me how to live a philosophy I later came to call feminism.

Carmen December 31, 2013 23 Comments
Book Lists

Top 10 Queer and Feminist Books of 2013

Read these books.

Ryan Yates December 31, 2013 29 Comments
Geekery

Star Trek N00b, Episode 4: Where No Man Has Gone Before

You know, if I’m ever trapped on a far-off planet with a crazed, god-like megalomaniac, I want Spock on my team!

Loraine December 31, 2013 7 Comments
Crafts & DIY Projects

Make A Thing: Elbow Patches

Sewing on elbow patches takes less than 20 minutes and can mend your sweaters for many years of lovin’ to come.

Hansen December 31, 2013 12 Comments
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