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Lesbian Weddings

Blush and Bashful: Let’s Talk About Wedding Registries

Your loved ones want to get you the things you want, and they can only do that if you tell them what that is!

By Vanessa | March 16, 2023 | 25 Comments
A blue and purple starry night sky is over shadow-covered trees and mountains. The sun is setting.
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

How Astrology Helped Me Accept My Demisexuality

As a queer, demisexual Libra, I was made to love, to be loved, and to make love (under certain conditions).

By Brittany J. | March 16, 2023 | 3 Comments
Three rows of word search-style letters, with Autostraddle's logo (AS) highlighted, on a yellow background. There are MSPaint style stickers of Carol the dog, coins, and a dollar bill with wings scattered around the image
Puzzles

Word Search: Autostraddle Is Fundraising!

Spend some time finding our favorite fundraiser words and then spend some money on supporting independent queer media!

By L | March 16, 2023 | 6 Comments
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TV Lists

48 TV Shows With Lesbian, Bisexual and Queer Characters Cancelled After One Season

140 TV shows with lesbian, bisexual, queer and/or trans women characters only got one season to shine before getting cancelled. Here are just some of the many we’ve had to say goodbye to, too soon.

By Riese | March 15, 2023 | 50 Comments
The Last of Us' gay male couple, with Chrishell pasted on top of them and a heart speech bubble
Pop Culture

Pop Culture Fix: Chrishell Thinks The Last of Us’ Homophobic Haters Are Simply Bad at Sex

Disney cancels Willow, Anne Heche was left out of the Oscars In Memoriam, M3gan is hosting the MTV Movie & TV Awards, and more!

By Heather Hogan | March 15, 2023 | 2 Comments
Max Chapman smiles while wearing her baseball hat in A League of Their Own
TV Feature

A League Of Their Own Is Still Fighting For #MoreThanFour Episodes

We heard, on good authority that the A League of Their Own team is still fighting for more episodes. Share your stories and help us help Amazon understand the fullness of the series’ impact.

By Heather Hogan | March 15, 2023 | 48 Comments
The 16 couples in the Enemies to Lovers round of March Madness with a trophy on top!
TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness 2023: Trope-y Wives – Enemies to Lovers

Is there anything gayer than enemies to lovers, when you really think about it?

By Natalie | March 15, 2023 | 3 Comments
Faltas by Cecilia Gentili, Virology by Joseph Osmundson, Brown Neon by Raquel Gutiérrez, Our Wives Under the Sea by Julia Armfield, Ma and Me by Putsata Reang, How Far the Light Reaches by Sabrina Imbler, Before We Were Trans by Kit Heyam, Pretty Baby by Chris Belcher, Gods of Want by K-Ming Chang, and Manywhere by Morgan Thomas
Book Features

Congratulations to the 2023 Lambda Literary Award Finalists!

Revisit Autostraddle’s reviews and interviews with this year’s Lambda Literary 2023 shortlisted books and authors.

By Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya | March 15, 2023 | 6 Comments
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Movie Reviews

SXSW 2023: “Bloody Hell” Is A Dope Teen Traumedy When It’s Not Making Nonbinary Folks Disposable

I know you’re going through it but could you not use me along the way?

By Shelli Nicole | March 15, 2023
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Straddleverse

We Need You To Buy Us Some Time Before Time Runs Out

If we don’t get the money we need, we’ll be gone before Pride.

By Nico Hall | March 15, 2023 | 116 Comments
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Straddleverse

Yes, Fundraising Is Part of Our Business Model: Here’s Why

Here are updates to our current financial situation. Still, the essentials of everything we’ve been saying for years are true. Fundraising is a part of our business model!

By Nico Hall | March 15, 2023 | 71 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Oscars Season Parties Are for the Gays

I mean, Chrishell Stause and G Flip attending Elton John’s party….perfect.

By Christina Tucker | March 15, 2023 | 1 Comment
A collage of three photos of the author, Heather Hogan. Left to right: Heather using her cane and compression socks to walk in the rain. Heather wearing a mask in the hospital and crossing her fingers. Heather standing in her backyard in front of her flower pots using a cane. 
First Person

The Soft Butch That Couldn’t (Or: I Got COVID-19 in March 2020 and Never Got Better)

Is a soft butch a soft butch if she can barely hold even herself together? Is a soft butch a soft butch without her swagger?

By Heather Hogan | March 15, 2023 | 131 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Gently Reminds You That ‘Pointy Hat’ Is Too Many Letters

It’s too bad the Beatles didn’t make that submarine green instead of yellow.

By Rachel Fabi | March 15, 2023 | 3 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events

TWO Yellowjackets Watch Alongs for A+ Members!

Join us for a rewatch this Thursday March 16th and a Premiere Watch-Along Friday March 24th!

By Nico Hall | March 14, 2023 | 11 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Sarah Paulson and Tig Notaro’s Lesbian Party Bus, Explained

Allison Janney, Sarah Paulson, Holland Taylor, Tig Notaro, Stephanie Allynne, Carla Gallo, Amanda Kloots, Sherri Saum and Lee Rose were singing Lady Gaga and Indigo Girls and Lizzo on a lesbian party bus this weekend. But why? And how do they know each other? Great news: we spent all day investigating.

By Riese | March 14, 2023 | 29 Comments
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Culture

Four Comedians On How Their Transness Has Informed and Influenced Their Careers

“I would much rather be funny than inspirational”

By Rowan Zeoli | March 14, 2023 | 9 Comments
Survivor 44 contestants Frannie Marin, Claire Rafson, and Carolyn Wiger standing, smiling at the camera
Television

Meet The Queer Women Contestants of “Survivor” Season 44

Will this be the first-ever season of Survivor with three queer women at the final tribal? Probably not, but maybe! 

By Anya Richkind | March 14, 2023 | 17 Comments
Four images from movies mentioned in this post: Gentleman Jack, 9 to 5, Mad Max: Fury Road, and Legally Blonde
TV Feature

I’ll Watch Anything About Women Bullying Men

I watch women bully men in stories the way I watch dragons fly in stories: with awe and longing, a fractured dream, an out-of-grasp fantasy — because real life’s not like that.

By Heather Hogan | March 14, 2023 | 14 Comments
A still from the film "Who I Am Not" which shows a Black intersex woman closing her eyes with her head to the sky, and a picture of a young Black girl is projected onto her chest.
Movie Reviews

SXSW 2023: The Lives and Loves of Intersex People In “Who I Am Not”

An intimate look at the journey to figuring out where you belong

By Shelli Nicole | March 14, 2023 | 2 Comments
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