“top 10 things you shouldn’t say to your girlfriend”
Recovering after being ghosted, dealing with queer tokenism, knowing if you’re a top or a bottom, straight people are STILL not ok, and did that organizer ask you for an organizing coffee or a COFFEE coffee??
This weekend was Autostraddle’s 11th birthday – we’re celebrating by thanking the community that’s helped us stick around this long by giving A+ members live personalized advice all day, with some amazing special guests! It’s not too late to become an A+ member now and join the party!
I think it’s very Cancer of me to watch Mary Lambert’s “She Keeps Me Warm” music video on Valentine’s Day just so I could feel my heart clench and cry a little.
My niche skill is terrifying men on the subway. Let me know if you need details.
Who loves infographics??? WE DO!!
I never thought I would be with another person like this for the rest of my life, but I’ve given myself permission, and that feels exciting.
Be the cool queer cousin you wished for as a kid, the polite way to turn someone down, sex is still great without an orgasm, creating your own queer community when you feel alone in the world, and 20 other questions from everyday readers like you!
“Sometimes with people my age it’s like are you gay or do you just live in a major city.”
If you’re an A+ member, you can sign up for Cafe Au Hey! to hang out in Chicago with Shelli Nicole, receive a book to spark a lasting queer connection, and get featured on Autostraddle.
“I don’t know how to explain what that did to my guts, unless you know exactly what I mean in which case youknowwhatImean. It was so mind-blowing.”
“38. welcome to sex.com!”
“I’ll answer that. It’s because your boyfriend compelled me to act like a psychopath.”
“i love it when middle age white women lose their shit and yell in lengthy monologues, too”
We’ve got huge markdowns all over the Autostraddle store right now and if you’re an A+ member, you are REALLY in luck because you’re getting the biggest markdown this side of Autostraddle!
Tell us, do you have any superstitions?
“Lol yes just got off work and ready for dyke shit”
“Sometimes I just want to light an entire pack of cigarettes, put them in my mouth and run around naked.”
On December 4th, “To L and Back” is doing a live recording in Los Angeles with the cast of “The L Word: Generation Q” and we’d love to see you there!
“Queer culture is being stressed about the Supreme Court AND being stressed about your ex texting you to see how you’re feeling about the Supreme Court.”