“megan rapinoe’s leather shorts and a tux jacket ONLY look is exactly what a 7 year old might negotiate to be able to wear to a fancy thing, and i love it.”
This Month: Proper protocol for casual sex with strangers, combating internalized fatphobia, lots of trans feelings, and how to apologize when its 100% your fault. Plus, what to do when it’s time to divorce him and come out already!
Can we please get a “sustainability dyke” pin? I would love that so much.
“Where do we stand on my confetti canon? Should I bring it to camp?”
These photos investigate the connection between pleasure and pain, and how kink can blur the line between where the body ends and the brain begins.
Having sex outside of buildings! Have you ever? We sure have!
“can we call lesbian visibility day lesbian brigadoon”
Highlights include: going down while wearing a nose ring, surviving the United States as a queer immigrant, living on the same college campus as your ex, and also how to perfectly time your break up. That’s just the beginning!
“SHIT WAS GAY HEATHER
SHIT HAS BEEN GAY”
“i do love that you are holding barefoot wine in that nervous breakdown picture”
“It’s adorable that you thought this book with this premise might have anyone who *isn’t* a lesbian in it!”
“I want to treat everyone who has ever mattered to me with respect, and with a baseline kindness. I know not all my exes feel I’ve done that, but I have always tried.”
Your late 20s/early 30s are thought by many to mark your Saturn Return, when Saturn circles back around to the placement it was in when you were born, and generally fucks everything up. Here’s how that went for us!
Sweet birthday AMA!! Eight full hours of advice, answers, resolutions, and camaraderie! No question will go unanswered! Not an A+ member yet? TODAY’S A GREAT DAY TO JOIN!
“I’m eating a candy cane and drinking wine and am like WOW I GUESS I NEVER LEAVE NOW”
Real life worries from readers like you! Including: coming out at any age, getting comfortable with butt sex, and so many questions about moving! Get ready! It’s a party!
Nothing stays the same forever, and that includes our bods; here’s the Autostraddle team talking about how they’ve noticed their bodies aging and what that’s like.
“It’s been so long since I watched a lighthearted dramedy not set in the UK that I’ve forgotten the American way to pronounce condom.”
“Little A+ box, I just wanted you to know that today I did my part in helping to burn the patriarchy to the ground.”
It’s time for our very special members-only annual report!