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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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Help Me Lord I Can’t Afford All These Weddings

What are the rules for plus ones contributing to wedding expenses? Also — is there any point in confessing your feelings to a long-distance crush?

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Jan 2, 2026

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Should We Stay Together For The Money?

What happens if you literally can’t afford to break up? Also; a reader is very stressed about her brother’s A.I girlfriend — and her parent’s approval of it.

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Dec 26, 2025

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Does My Girlfriend Really Need This Much Alone Time?

Why does my girlfriend need so much time away from me? Also; a reader in their late 30s who’s newly exploring kink.

the team

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Dec 19, 2025

astrology, tarot & witchcraft

A Queer Guide To Setting New Year Intentions

Plus: What do doors in dreams mean? And a mini gift guide from your favorite queer Cowboy!

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Dec 15, 2025

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I Feel Weird About My Wife Hiring a Sex Worker

A newly-out asexual isn’t so sure about their wife’s proposal for sex outside the marriage. Also; a reader wants to go to sex parties, but hold the kink.

the team

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Dec 12, 2025

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Am I Allowed To Get Mad At My Flaky Friend?

Your friend says she’s trying her hardest to show up despite her mental illness, but you’re still frustrated. Also: how to manage lingering feelings about someone you dated during a…

the team

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Dec 5, 2025