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Come To Lesbian Jesus, Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley Have Confirmed Their 4-Year Relationship!

After four years of taking romantic vacations in the same location at the same time, Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko have officially confirmed that they are girlfriends!!

By Riese | 12 hours ago | 2 Comments
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Boobs on Your Tube: Hen and Karen Get Gay Married (Again!) on 9-1-1

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“Pinecone & Pony” Gives Us the Animated Queer Nonbinary Couple We’ve Been Waiting For

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By Heather Hogan | 12 hours ago | 1 Comment
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Obsessed: “The Staircase” and The Shoddy Science Of Blood Pattern Analysis

HBO’s “The Staircase” revisits the very Documented Michael Peterson true crime story and it’s time for us all to get into some blood pattern analysis content !

By Riese | 17 hours ago | 7 Comments
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By Darcy | 19 hours ago
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Queer Tarotscopes for Gemini Season 2022: What Are You Curious About?

Gemini season can bring mild whiplash even in the best of times.

By meg | 20 hours ago | 1 Comment
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A+ Member sex questions — from spanking to long-term relationship sex — answered!

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Lesbian Jesus Is Back! Hayley Kiyoko Is the Gay Bachelor in New Music Video, Starring Becca Tilley

Hayley Kiyoko drops new single “For The Girls” and a video that more-or-less seems to acknowledge her relationship with former Bachelor contestant Becca Tilley.

By Em Win | 22 hours ago | 3 Comments
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Also.Also.Also: Dove Cameron Opens Up About Dysphoria, Depression, in Honestly Striking Instagram Post

Sending so much love to Dove Cameron today. Also: The USWNT is finally getting equal pay for equal play, and Audre Lorde is getting her own street in New York.

By Carmen Phillips | May 19, 2022 | 15 Comments
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Swimsuits, Lingerie & Jumpsuits – Fat Femmes Share Their Favorite Shops!

“All I’ve ever wanted in life is slutty thigh-high socks – and I’ve finally found them”

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May 19, 2022 | 10 Comments
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I Am Simply Screaming at This Lesbian Cruise Episode of “Hacks”

The show doesn’t look away from Deborah Vance’s homophobia (or from Ava’s flaws either), and it makes for a wildly uncomfortable and messy episode — in the best way.

By Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya | May 19, 2022 | 6 Comments
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Celebrating Ten Years of She Shreds Magazine: An Interview with Fabi Reyna

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By danijanae | May 19, 2022 | 2 Comments
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Rainbow Reading: Don’t Stop Believer-ing

Let’s talk about what just happened with The Believer. Also, calling all my short story gays! Welcome back to Rainbow Reading, your biweekly roundup of LGBTQ+ lit news.

By Yashwina | May 19, 2022 | 3 Comments
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Black Queers Look For Accountability in Kendrick Lamar’s “Mr. Morale & The Big Steppers”

It’s not hard to listen to Black queer & trans folks and get this shit correct.

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May 18, 2022 | 7 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix: JoJo Siwa’s “Crazy-Fun” Gal Pal Adventures Are Getting Their Own Show

Netflix is still on its bullshit, the teaser for Niecy Nash’s Rookie spin-off, Tracy Flick vs. Toxic Masculinity, and more!

By Heather Hogan | May 18, 2022 | 8 Comments
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By Heather Hogan | May 18, 2022 | 29 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Are We Ready for the Return of Lesbian Jesus!!??

Also, yeah sorry all of this Gillian Anderson shoot is hot to me, what do you expect??

By Christina Tucker | May 18, 2022 | 11 Comments
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FYP: This Is Honestly Just A Bunch Of Horny TikToKs

Sometimes I can’t come up with a theme and I just watch TikToks that make me tingle

By Shelli Nicole | May 18, 2022
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TV Show Recaps

“Gentleman Jack” Invents The Endless Lesbian Breakup

RIP Mariana, you would have loved Taylor Swift.

By Heather Hogan | May 17, 2022 | 9 Comments
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Also.Also.Also: Karine Jean-Pierre Makes Black, Gay, Immigrant History as White House Press Secretary

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By Heather Hogan | May 17, 2022 | 4 Comments
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