Recommended Reading for Chill Vibes and Centering Oneself in This F*cking Hellscape 🙃
I asked our team to share what they read when they have had quite the fuck enough of this absolute shit.
Lists/Top 10s
28 Sex Toys for Food-Free Food Play
Love to get off on a super sexy cake sitting but get a sympathetic yeast infection almost immediately? These food-shaped sex toys are for you.
10 Sad (But Non-Lethal) Movies for the Casually Depressed Queer Woman
Maybe you’ve been separated from your lover because your homophobic society won’t accept your love. If so DM me and I’ll send you 350 movies to watch. But personally I’m sad because sometimes life is just really hard.
What Your Sad White Girl Music of 2019 Means for Your 2020
There were a lot of very strong albums in the Sad White Girl creative space to vibe with while eating parmesan crisps in bed and watching Bon Appetit videos. Which one defined your 2019? What does it tell us about the year to come?
Classic TV From the Bush Era That You Can Stream to Survive Trump This Year
An incompetent, racist, homophobic, madman is driving at the wheel of our country. But we’ve been here before. We fought back. We survived it. And I believe that we’ll survive this, too.
100 Ways People Found Autostraddle Last Week: Sex Edition
“38. welcome to sex.com!”
Jennifer Aniston’s Breakdowns on “The Morning Show,” Ranked
“Emotionally damaged white women absolutely love to have their walls come down while they are pretending to be absolutely fine, thank you very much.”
The Best TV Shows Of 2019 With LGBT Women Characters
Our TV critics smashed their heads together to deliver our picks for the years’ 25 best shows with queer, lesbian, bisexual and trans women characters as well as each of our individual top 15s. So much TV you’ve gotta see in here!
70 Trader Joe’s Frozen Foods Ranked by a Seasonally Depressed Person
The sun might leave us for 3-6 months out of the year, but my microwave never will.
The 20 Most Popular Autostraddle Posts of 2019
From houseplants to spice girls to Generation Q, these were the 20 most popular posts of 2019.
Queer Your Ears: The 50 Best Albums Of The 2010s By Queer & Trans Musicians
The 2010s was an incredibly gay decade in music. Queer and trans musicians gained more visibility and success than ever before over the last 10 years! Here are the best 50 albums of the decade, according to me.
The 50 Best Lesbian, Queer, and Bisexual Movies of the Decade
The fact is most of the films about us — and especially the films by us — do not get the attention they deserve. But nobody is better equipped to tell our stories than we are.
The 12 Queer Sex Positions Of Christmas
Try these positions to add some spice (ooh, is that nutmeg?) to your sex life this December.
Queer Your Ears: The 20 Best Lesbian Love Songs Of 2019
Valentine’s Day is coming up in only two months! This is my holiday gift to those of you who struggle with gifts: make her a Spotify playlist! And guess what, I’ve already done most of the work for you.
17 Very Good Queer Meme Instagram Accounts to Follow
Good queer memes will make you smile and laugh and cry and accept the mortifying ordeal of being known.
80 of the Best Queer, Lesbian and Bisexual Books of the Decade
It sure has been a decade! Mainstream publishing has become much more open to queer stories, especially perhaps in YA, and the drive and determination of indie and queer publishing projects has meant that less saleable work that is sometimes more resonant to our lives has been able to make it to our shelves. Here are some of the brightest highlights!
Five Perfect Holiday Gifts for the 8,000 Spiders Who Raised You in That Damp Cave
Check out this list so you don’t have to phone it in again this year by getting your 8,000 mothers another handful of flies!
8 Amazing Books about Queer/Lesbian/Bi/Trans Women with Superpowers
Is it too obvious to say that reading books about queer women with superpowers can be very… empowering?
Lesbian and Bisexual Women of History Who Were Obsessed with Their Dogs, Part 4
We’re back for a barely conceivable fourth installment looking at the big dogs, little dogs and doggy dogs of more lesbian and bisexual women of history who were obsessed with them!
The Top 100 Queer and Trans Women of Color Television Characters in TV History
The television landscape is changing rapidly. Where does that leave lesbian, bisexual, and trans women of color on TV? Where have been, and more importantly — where are we going?