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Shibari 101: Hogtie

Here’s how to put a few basic shibari ties together so you can hogtie your rope bottom!

By cee| May 31, 2018 | 3 Comments
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Shibari 101: Leg Tie

Here’s how to do a basic shibari leg tie for beginners!

By cee| May 24, 2018 | 5 Comments
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Shibari 101: Basic Chest Harness

Here’s how to make a basic shibari chest harness!

By cee| May 17, 2018 | 6 Comments
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Shibari 101: Single- and Double-Column Ties

Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.

By cee| May 10, 2018 | 5 Comments
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Shibari 101: Let’s Talk About Japanese Rope Bondage

Welcome to Shibari 101, your chance to learn the building blocks of Japanese rope bondage! Today, we’re talking about history, basics and safety.

By cee| May 3, 2018 | 6 Comments

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