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Sex

‘I’m Bisexual but Sex With My Boyfriend Makes Me Wonder if I’m Actually a Lesbian’

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Valerie Anne 18 hours ago
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) LGBT History

Rosie O’Donnell In Blazers, 1992 – 1999

In this much-anticipated follow-up to “12 Monumental Moments In Lesbian Blazer-Wearing History” we are narrowing our focus onto one key subject in 90s blazer history: Rosie O’Donnell.

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Queer Fashion

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Atlanta Tsiaoukkas 19 hours ago 4 Comments
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Politics + Activism

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Riese 22 hours ago 2 Comments
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AF+ Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Cowboy Clairvoyant: A Queer Tarot Reading for Those Considering Breaking Up

Breaking up is hard to do, yes, but not impossible.

Autumn Fourkiller 22 hours ago
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TV Show Recaps

‘King of Drag’ Teaches Drag History In Its Best Episode Yet

With its fourth episode, King of Drag creates its own path beyond Drag Race by embracing important queer history.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 14, 2025
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Lesbian Pasta Shape Are You?

You could spend today making a special Sunday Sauce for a large pot of pasta — or you could spend today taking this personality quiz.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 13, 2025 6 Comments
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TV Reviews

Satanic Slasher Series ‘Hell Motel’ Has Lesbians and Blood Sacrifice if You’re Into That Sort of Thing

For all the thrills and bloodspill, the scariest part of the show might be…its portrayal of heterosexuality?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 12, 2025
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the team July 11, 2025
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TV Lists

28 Best LGBT TV Shows on Peacock

Believe it or not, Peacock has a surprisingly robust slate of television shows with major lesbian, bisexual and queer women and/or trans characters. Here’s a list of our favorite LGBT TV shows on Peacock.

Riese July 11, 2025 9 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley Got Engaged in a Body of Water

After seven years of dating, Lesbian Jesus Hayley Kiyoko and former “Bachelor” contestant and podcaster Becca Tilley have gotten engaged, and it’s pretty adorable!!

Riese July 10, 2025 2 Comments
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Movie Lists

The Top 10 Lesbian Movie Night Club Scenes

Here are my ten favorite night club scenes from lesbian movies — many at queer clubs, some at straight clubs where queer people make them gay. Inhale those poppers, grind on your crush, and dive in!

Drew Burnett Gregory July 10, 2025
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AF+ Parenting & Family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese July 10, 2025 7 Comments
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TV Reviews

On Lena Dunham’s ‘Too Much’ Queer Actors Perform Straight Chaos

Megan Stalter is a fitting lead for a Lena Dunham series that trades the realism of Girls for broad comedy, formal experimentation, and big romcom moments.

Drew Burnett Gregory July 10, 2025 3 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

‘Ironheart’ Brings Another Queer Witch to the MCU

Regan Aliyah confirms Zelma’s queerness. Plus, is Chappell Roan filming a new music video? And more queer pop culture news!

Valerie Anne July 9, 2025 2 Comments
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Comedy TV Feature

11 Gay Thoughts About ‘Love Island USA’ Season 7

8. You know when you run into your ex and their new boo sooner than you wanted? I’d like to start calling that a “bombshell entering the villa”

mal July 9, 2025 1 Comment
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Cynthia Erivo Celebrates the Thong Song

Plus, Nats Getty and Gigi Gorgeous are divorcing and more queer celeb news.

Christina Tucker July 9, 2025 1 Comment
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Politics + Activism

That Ugly Ass Tax Bill Disproportionately Impacts the Trans Community

Even though the Senate removed the parts of the bill that would ban the use of Medicaid funds for gender-affirming care, the bill’s passing is still devastating for healthcare access.

Stef Rubino July 9, 2025 2 Comments
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