Your older girlfriend doesn’t use social media and treats your TikTok doomscrolling like it’s smoking — is she kinda right, or super wrong? Also another reader is a trans police…
When does “they’re going through a hard time” stop being a fair excuse for treating someone poorly? Also; another reader isn’t sure how long they should keep their ex on…
You’ve forgiven your ex and she’s transformed on meds — why can’t your friends forgive her, too? Also, another reader has taken a lot of quizzes and feels like they…
Is it weird for her college hookup to marry a guy who has no idea she’s ever been with women? Also; another reader can’t stop comparing their life to their…
You’re just not clicking with a new connection — how do you gently end a friendship? Also; an autistic reader is getting frustrated with self-diagnosed friends asking for autism spectrum…
Q. Can I ask Them To Rehome Their Cat For Me? I’m starting to get serious with this person who I am truly OBSESSESSSSSEEEEDDD with, everything is so great but…
You want to go home early so you can run the next morning — your girlfriend says that’s disordered behavior. Also, a reader is unsure if she should accept help…
You have a solution to how you’ve been feeling about your unemployment, but your girlfriend isn’t so sure. Also, another reader is upset that all of her friends have slept…
You’re pretty sure you know exactly why your friend’s wife left her — when do you tell her? Also, another reader needs help paying for her wife’s birthday party.
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