A reader is upset by their partner’s inability to go sober. Also: how to start dating women and find queer community after a 9-year relationship with a man.
A newly-out asexual isn’t so sure about their wife’s proposal for sex outside the marriage. Also; a reader wants to go to sex parties, but hold the kink.
“Recently, I’ve found myself looking her ex’s profile or looking at old pictures of them on my girlfriend’s Instagram multiple times a day. I zoom in on the pictures &…
