relationships ‘My Girlfriend Hates My Hair’ “When my gf first saw my hair (she has no poker face) she said it was a big change and… Summer Tao May 26, 2026
relationships ‘My Partner Talks on the Phone With Their Abusive Ex Every Day’ “Am I valid to be unsettled? And is there anything I can do to facilitate a conversation with them about this?” Summer Tao — Jun 24, 2025
relationships ‘My Girlfriend Thinks My Music Taste Is Trash’ She’ll often play recent music and ask me if I know who it is when she knows the answer is no. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jun 10, 2025
relationships ‘I Want To Flee My Relationship’ “Today, I was talking to a dear friend about the current state of my relationship. They told me that it sounds like I am trapped, and that I am being… Summer Tao — Apr 15, 2025
af+ HELP! I’m Trapped in a Fartless Relationship! Nearly two years of cohabitation and you still haven’t farted around each other?! Also, a reader’s gf might be exhibiting (and triggering) some disordered eating habits. the team — Apr 11, 2025
af+ My Girlfriend Hates That My Family Is White, But I Can’t Fix That She roasts your family for being so white, and you’re like… yep we are, that’s true! So now what? Also, let us plan your trip to Italy! the team — Apr 4, 2025
af+ Newly Sober Girlfriend Is Harshing My Mellow You’ve compromised for her, but she still judges you for smoking weed. Also, is this out-of-state queer wedding worth the PTO? the team — Feb 28, 2025
af+ My Girlfriend Has Money to Spare, So Can I Ask for a Loan? She knows you can’t afford the thing you need, but hasn’t even offered to help?! Also, we settle a debate about bookshelves! the team — Feb 21, 2025
af+ Will She Dump Me If I Don’t Wanna Join Her Wellness Journey? Is it OK to tell your girlfriend you’d simply rather watch TV than exercise with her? Also, what to do when texting people back feels like homework! the team — Feb 7, 2025
