friendship What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team Jun 28, 2025
dating 12 Queers on Where We Fall on the Polyamory/Monogamy Scale Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team May 10, 2025
friendship What’s a Normal Human Behavior That Gives You the Ick? Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team Jun 28, 2025
dating 12 Queers on Where We Fall on the Polyamory/Monogamy Scale Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and the team May 10, 2025
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #70: LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS The team answers your questions about keeping those fires burning! the team — Oct 21, 2022
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #69: What If You Have a Stalker? Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more! the team — Oct 7, 2022
af+ A+ Roundtable: What’s In Our Fridges? “The Trader Joe’s tilapia actually slaps I highly recommend!” the team — Sep 29, 2022
af+ A+ Roundtable: Our First Times Having “Queer” Sex “Her moaning kind of disappeared into the expanse of the ocean and the sand, and I remember thinking it was the coolest thing that ever happened to me.” the team — Sep 20, 2022
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #68: HAIR In which our team answers our members’ questions about their hair! the team — Sep 16, 2022
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #67: Surviving the End of a 9-Year Relationship Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more! the team — Sep 9, 2022
af+ A+ Roundtable: Our Writing Routines “It’s just me, Maxwell, my dog, and these words in my dimly lit Midwestern office – perfection.” the team — Aug 30, 2022
af+ A+ Roundtable: Our Celebrity Crushes “All I’m learning from this is that I need to keep going to therapy.” the team — Aug 23, 2022
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #66: SKINCARE In which our team answers our members’ questions about the care and keeping of their skin! the team — Aug 19, 2022
sports Turns Out a Lot of the Autostraddle Team Played Softball and Baseball — WHO COULD HAVE GUESSED? In honor of A League of Their Own, we revisited the softball and baseball photos of our youths. the team — Aug 15, 2022
af+ Into the A+ Advice Box #65: So You Think You Might Be Gender Fluid Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more! the team — Aug 5, 2022
community Our Buttholes, Ourselves: An Anal August Roundtable I asked our writers to share tales about their tail-ends, and — WOW — they really went for it. the team — Aug 2, 2022