Welcome to the 81st edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.

Every SECOND A+ Advice box of the month is themed! Next month's theme is going to be TRAVEL AND ROAD TRIPS AND CAMPING. Do you need...safety tips? Are you planning a trip and you want to know if anyone else has been to a certain...