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This is very last minute but apparently tonight there will be a lunar eclipse during what is called a “full beaver moon,” which just seems like something y’all would be into.

By The Editors| December 20, 2020 | 17 Comments
the team: riese, rachel, sarah, carmen, kamala, and laneia look concerned while staring at their computers
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I follow my ex girlfriend’s rabbit on Instagram, but not her or her new girlfriend. Felt I should share.

By The Editors| October 26, 2020 | 7 Comments
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How do non-D&D Discords even work?!

By The Editors| August 19, 2020 | 28 Comments
Riese, Rachel, Carmen, Sarah, Kamala and Laneia all gather round to smile and answer your questions.
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Theres been a lot of hate for “hard pants” lately…

By The Editors| June 29, 2020 | 22 Comments
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By The Editors| April 24, 2020 | 80 Comments
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My niche skill is terrifying men on the subway. Let me know if you need details.

By The Editors| February 27, 2020 | 12 Comments
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Tell us, do you have any superstitions?

By The Editors| December 12, 2019 | 12 Comments
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The one with the Anne of Green Gables fanfic in it.

By The Editors| August 30, 2019 | 26 Comments
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Can we please get a “sustainability dyke” pin? I would love that so much.

By The Editors| July 2, 2019 | 48 Comments
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“It’s adorable that you thought this book with this premise might have anyone who *isn’t* a lesbian in it!”

By The Editors| March 30, 2019 | 40 Comments
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“Little A+ box, I just wanted you to know that today I did my part in helping to burn the patriarchy to the ground.”

By The Editors| January 28, 2019 | 41 Comments
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“All horror is queer culture, as is Halloween as you correctly stated, and the 1970s in general, AND all final girls are queer culture in a very specific way that can only be discussed when you’re extremely high during a full moon.”

By The Editors| November 13, 2018 | 39 Comments
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How do you make a gif? I need a gif of Shane saying “where do you LIVE Mark??” Do you know the scene Im talking about?

By The Editors| September 12, 2018 | 44 Comments
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“Sally? Sally, are you here? Are you selling those shirts?”

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By The Editors| May 10, 2018 | 34 Comments
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“Are you familiar with the Jughead Lesbian Style Debacle of 2018.”

By The Editors| March 29, 2018 | 62 Comments
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“Out beyond ideas of likable and unlikable comments there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.”

By The Editors| December 1, 2017 | 43 Comments
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“This is only tangentially related to your question, but I think about the same girl nearly every time I put on mascara.”

By The Editors| September 16, 2017 | 42 Comments
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“I am so glad I joined A+ (even though it led to me drinking literal vodka water)”

By The Editors| July 21, 2017 | 45 Comments
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“i wish there were more bloody lesbians in the world so that i never had to get into ridiculous situations like this.”

By The Editors| June 22, 2017 | 44 Comments
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