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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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Why Can’t They Support My Sobriety The Way I Want Them To?

A reader is upset by their partner’s inability to go sober. Also: how to start dating women and find queer community after a 9-year relationship with a man.

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What 2026 Has in Store for Your Love Life, According to Tarot

What should we anticipate in love/relationships in 2026? What qualities should I let myself lean into in love/relationships in 2026? What will love bring to me in 2026? Cowboy Clairvoyant answers these questions…

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Feb 9, 2026

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I’m So Grossed Out By My Partner Now That We Live Together

You’ve finally moved in with your partner and now you have the ick. Also: how to get prying parents to lay off requests for you to get a girlfriend?

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Feb 6, 2026

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How Can I Learn To Stop Worrying About Time and Love the Sex

So you want to have sex more often but there’s some things getting in the way. Also — should you leave your beloved community for an exciting job opportunity?

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Jan 28, 2026