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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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I’m F*cking a Married Couple Ten Years Older Than Me

“He, too, seems incredibly boring, though he is ten years my senior, a point in his favor. Another point: his wife is dark haired, fat, and blue eyed, thirteen years…

Guest

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Aug 22, 2024

4 across / 4 letters / "Our ___ Means Death" (very gay pirate adventure show)

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AF+ Mini Crossword Is a Gay Pirate

Arrrrrrr(en’t we all though, really?)

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 21, 2024

12 across / 10 letters / Band named for a petulant girl in "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory"

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AF+ Crossword is Well-Seasoned

This puzzle is off the Scoville scale!

Emet Ozar

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Aug 17, 2024

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I Want My Girlfriend To Quit Acting and Get a Job

Are you the asshole for asking your girlfriend to give up her acting dreams and get a real job? Also, we help a reader decide if it’s time to break…

the team

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Aug 16, 2024

4 down / 5 letters / "___ Kelly" (2002 Hillary Duff banger featuring a fabulous extended dance duet in military dress with ribbons and a lot of girl-on-girl tension)

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AF+ Mini Crossword Has Flames on the Side of Its Face

It was the mini crossword in the study with the candlestick!

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 16, 2024

1 across / 5 letters / ___PadSeries.com (LGBTQ+ porn site)

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AF+ Mini Crossword Is a Poet

And boy does Mini Crossword know it.

Emet Ozar

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Aug 14, 2024

15 down / 3 letters / "___ vs. Carole" (film staring Kate McKinnon as Carole Baskin)

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AF+ Crossword Is Into Show Tunes

This puzzle is for you, musical theater lovers.

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 10, 2024

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I Thought The Breakup Would Make Me Feel Better — But I’ve Never Felt Worse

Just wondering if anyone else has an ex who is a good and wonderful person who they feel crazy for breaking up with? And also what kinds of plants should…

the team

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Aug 9, 2024