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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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What Do Animals in Dreams Mean?

What can fish mean in dreams? Bears? Dogs? Learn more and get some journal prompts for what to consider when an animal pops up in your dreamworld.

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Apr 13, 2026

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I Want To Run Away From The Community Org I Created

She wants to help her community, but the brutal feedback loop is killing her. Also: tips for strapping with a height-difference.

the team

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Apr 9, 2026

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I Gotta Stop Lying To Them About My Psych Meds

How to tell your anti-big-pharma crush that you have a prescription. Also; how to take hot masc thirst traps!

the team

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Apr 3, 2026

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astrology, tarot & witchcraft

How To Mystically Spring Clean

In spring, we sow what we might later reap (and what is good for our souls), so give, as you receive, with an open hand.

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Mar 30, 2026

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I’m a Newly Out Lesbian — Tell Me What To Read and Watch!

A newly out lesbian needs help deciding what to read and watch. Another is falling in love and pretty terrified about it.

the team

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Mar 27, 2026

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She’s a “10” But She Uses AI… Like, a Lot

You really like this girl, but you’re skeptical about her relationship with Claude. Also: is is ok to have crushes while in a happily monogamous relationship?

the team

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Mar 20, 2026

astrology, tarot & witchcraft

What the Fool Tarot Card Can Teach Us Right Now

If you can, do something with your hands, your body, even if it’s just staring and contemplating the trees outside your window — listen to what the earth, the wind,…

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Mar 17, 2026

girl in cowboy boots upon a boy and then the boy

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I Hate Passing as a Straight Couple

A lesbian struggles with her trans boyfriend’s growing disconnection from queer community and identification. Also, we have another classic quandry: Two Bottoms, One Relationship.

the team

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Mar 13, 2026