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The Ultimatum: Queer Love’s Bridget Matloff on What the Cameras Didn’t Show You

Bridget Matloff speaks on friendship with Gabby Windey, pressures of reality TV, thoughts on marriage, gender roles, and yes, haircare.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan

Sep 8, 2025

FIRST PERSON

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to…

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

FIRST PERSON

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well,…

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

PARENTING & FAMILY

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I…

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

first person

I Was Already Afraid of My Inbox. Then a Death Threat Came

The deadline for my compliance with the “blackmail” had already passed. It was supposed to be noon.

Nico

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Aug 13, 2025

first person

On Being a Masc Top From Rural Oklahoma

You’ve fucked every lesbian sorority girl in Oklahoma, someone tells me on an app. Well, I said. Probably not all of them, right?

Anonymous

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Jul 23, 2025

parenting & family

A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step

“I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.”

Riese

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Jul 10, 2025

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4 down / 5 letters / "___ Kelly" (2002 Hillary Duff banger featuring a fabulous extended dance duet in military dress with ribbons and a lot of girl-on-girl tension)

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AF+ Mini Crossword Has Flames on the Side of Its Face

It was the mini crossword in the study with the candlestick!

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 16, 2024

1 across / 5 letters / ___PadSeries.com (LGBTQ+ porn site)

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AF+ Mini Crossword Is a Poet

And boy does Mini Crossword know it.

Emet Ozar

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Aug 14, 2024

15 down / 3 letters / "___ vs. Carole" (film staring Kate McKinnon as Carole Baskin)

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AF+ Crossword Is Into Show Tunes

This puzzle is for you, musical theater lovers.

Kate Hawkins

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Aug 10, 2024

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I Thought The Breakup Would Make Me Feel Better — But I’ve Never Felt Worse

Just wondering if anyone else has an ex who is a good and wonderful person who they feel crazy for breaking up with? And also what kinds of plants should…

the team

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Aug 9, 2024

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AF+ Mini Crossword Just Loves TV So Much

Specifically, Mini Crossword is currently on a Buffy kick. This is not a spoiler, it’s just a confession.

Emet Ozar

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Aug 9, 2024

4 across / 3 letters / Genre for Megan Thee Stallion

puzzles

AF+ Mini Crossword Knows the Italian Word for ‘Handsome’

Bet you weren’t expecting a pop quiz on Italian vocabulary!

Rebecca Goldstein

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Aug 7, 2024

Collaged image of a mouth whispering into an ear against a green/black backdrop depicting a group dynamic

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I Think My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me With Her Work Wife

The knowing glances, the closeness, the fact that she’s your girlfriend’s type…??? Also, can you transition from exes to friends with a longterm gf if you’re still really mad?

the team

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Aug 2, 2024