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Postcards Are Important

Postcards are fucking important.

Carmen September 13, 2012 20 Comments
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Playlist: Our A-Camp Listening Party Choices

A listening party for two. Or two hundred.

Carmen September 13, 2012 13 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Listling: Reasons You Should Read Santa Olivia Immediately

There are lots of reasons to read Santa Olivia. Even if you weren’t peer pressured into doing it for A Camp.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2012 10 Comments
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Geek Things You Should Know About

Gettin’ geeky with it.

Ryan Yates September 13, 2012 28 Comments
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Autostraddle’s Women of Color Ask: What Does WOC Mean To Me?

“When I see lesbian couple after lesbian couple with not only matching haircuts and clothes but matching skin colours, I feel alone.”

gabby September 13, 2012 36 Comments
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Also. Also. Also. Google’s Back On Our Side and Other Stories We Missed This Week

The HRC Convention, political shenanigans and the most anticipated music video since “The Real L Word” finale.

Kristen September 12, 2012 21 Comments
Dating Love + Sex

Oh Gay Cupid! 21 Signs Your OkCupid Date Isn’t Going Well

Why does this shit always happen to me?

Lizz September 12, 2012 109 Comments
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Sleep Cycle Makes Rising and Shining A Feasible Possibility

Laura’s Team Pick: The sun is up, the sky is blue, it’s beautiful and so are you.

Laura September 12, 2012 30 Comments
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Read a F*cking eBook: Best Feminist Titles Under $5

From fiction to history to theory, we’ve got your end-of-summer feminist reading needs covered.

Ryan Yates September 12, 2012 15 Comments
Hair

How To Grow Out Your Alternative Lifestyle Haircut Less Awkwardly

Are you growing your hair out from that awesome alternative lifestyle haircut, too? Isn’t it awkward? Let’s commiserate over accidentally looking like Carol Brady.

Hansen September 12, 2012 66 Comments
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The R Word: Advice On Sharing A Space With Other Humans

If you learn to get along with your roommates this’ll never happen to you.

Kristen September 11, 2012 45 Comments
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Queer Girl City Guide: Birmingham, United Kingdom

It’s the second largest and second most populous city in the United Kingdom (the first being London) with over three and a half million people. So obviously it can’t be too bad here!

Sophie September 11, 2012 50 Comments
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Playlist: It Takes Two To Tango

We can duet!

Laura September 11, 2012 17 Comments
Music

New T&S Collaborations to Get Your Quin Fix!

Kristen’s Team Pick: This song will make your pre-A-Camp Tuesday a bit more bearable.

Kristen September 11, 2012 16 Comments
Book Features

Malinda Lo and Behold: The Autostraddle Interview

Malinda Lo spoke with Autostraddle about her new book Adaptation, diversity in YA, gay girls making out, and how much she loves us (spoiler alert: a lot).

Ryan Yates September 11, 2012 28 Comments
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Holding People Up: How An All-Female Acrobat Troupe Saved Me

“There is no better feeling than knowing you can’t do something, just knowing it to the core, and then surprising yourself because you can.”

A.E. Osworth September 10, 2012 36 Comments
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What If? Takes Thought Experiments To The Next Level

Laura’s Team Pick: What if xkcd got just a little nerdier?

Laura September 10, 2012 14 Comments
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A Whole New World (of Warcraft)

Ladies and gentlebois, this is my coming out: I am a proud, gay, level 85 warlock. And I am here to recruit you.

Tami September 10, 2012 87 Comments
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Real L Word 309 Recap: Perfect Day For This Show To End With A Bang Bang Bang

This week on “The Real L Word,” everybody got married to dolphins!

Riese September 9, 2012 229 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Has Never Felt Gayer

Holy shit what a good week.

Carmen September 9, 2012 27 Comments
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