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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Wearing A Harness Under Her Dress

Holiday breakups, sex ed protests, knowing what you want, when what you want is a vibrator shaped like someone’s head, and more.

Ryan Yates November 16, 2014 10 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday’s Coming Out Rap is Fifty Shades of Gay

Oh, also, a baby reindeer.

Carmen November 16, 2014 11 Comments
Geekery

GamerGate: A Quick (Emotional) Check-In

GamerGate is about shitting all over women; let’s feel nauseous about it together.

A.E. Osworth November 15, 2014 30 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Spider

“What the heck is that spider doing?”

Megan Praz November 15, 2014 8 Comments
TV Feature

Fan Fiction Friday: Glee’s 10 Hottest Lesbian Sex Scenes

Brittana and Faberry and Quinntana, oh my!

Heather Hogan November 14, 2014 66 Comments
Community

You Need Help: So We’re Speeding Towards That Time of Year, The Day That Marks That You’re Not Here

How can you be there for your partner during Deathiversary season when they cope with hard times by retreating inward/not talking? Read our advice and help out with your own!

Riese November 14, 2014 17 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Would Like Bathroom Fries With That

Biblical floods, the worst lesbian bars and fast food feelings.

carrie November 14, 2014 6 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Transparent Episode 108 Recap: I Want To Be Happy For Two More Hours

A blast from the past.

Rachel November 14, 2014 15 Comments
Gender

A Thank You Letter From One Trans Woman To The Others in My Life

Dear trans sisters and mothers and abuelas and aunties and daughters and nieces and cousins,
Thank you for everything.

Mey November 14, 2014 21 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #153: Feminine Marvelous and Tough

Topics include film dubbing in France, Jimmy’s World, Taco Bell, being a serial killer’s daughter, race in Silicon Valley, Kathy Acker and more!

Riese November 14, 2014 8 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s the First Dish You Made on Your Own?

It’s time for the Friday Open Thread, an undercover project I instituted at this website to slowly collect information on someone I have a crush on who’s very into sharing details about their life via the comments.

Brittani November 14, 2014 203 Comments
Recipes

Let’s Get This Party Started: Fancy Smoked Oyster Dip

A fuss-free, quick and easy hors d’oeuvre for all your holiday and party needs.

July Westhale November 14, 2014 1 Comment
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #59: Luminous Misandry

Texts from Jane Eyre as a new form of literary criticism, whether to finish every book you start, strong opinions on book lists and more.

Ryan Yates November 13, 2014 10 Comments
Queer Fashion

He Said/We Said: Laid-Back in Vermont

It gets bleeping cold in Vermont, so the dappers there are not playing around when it comes to style that is both fashionable and functional. The collection is rugged, stylish, and perfect for cold weather wardrobes.

dapperq November 13, 2014 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Orange Is The New Black Episode 213 Recap: And I Will Never Finger Her

It’s the season finale of Orange is the New Black, and so much shit is about to go down. Ride with me.

Riese November 13, 2014 24 Comments
Politics + Activism

Michigan Same-Sex Couples Get a Court Win, But State Legislature Wants to Leave Trans People Behind

Republicans are trying to exclude trans protections in a civil rights amendment, while a federal judge has struck down a state law banning domestic partner benefits.

Mari Brighe November 13, 2014 4 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: You Think You’re Bad At Sex

“Forget all your ideas about what the person across the table from you might want until they tell you so you can actually listen when they do.”

Ryan Yates November 13, 2014 42 Comments
Beauty

6 Blue Lipsticks Road-Tested for the Ice Queen In You

Something truly wonderful is happening. Cosmetic companies are expanding their lipstick colors beyond the standard red-orange-pink-purple-burgundy spectrum and into the land of black, yellow, green and blue lipstick.

Elena November 13, 2014 13 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Faking It Episode 208 Recap: The Flavor Of The Month Is Lezberry Blast

This week on “Faking It,” Amy doesn’t win Miss Congeniality, but neither does Lauren, and neither does Karma. Neither does Liam! Or Duke or Shane or Reagan. But everybody’s hair looks GREAT.

Riese November 12, 2014 37 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Stronic Drei

The first week I had the Stronic Drei, I spent about ten hours in bed with it.

Guest November 12, 2014 5 Comments
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