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Dating Queer Fashion

You Need Help: Cat Whistling Your Queerness To Other Closeted Queer Ladies

Need help flirting “in a way that’s subtle enough to fly over a straight girl’s head, but be picked up on by LBPQ woman?” Read on!

Laura Mandanas December 16, 2015 67 Comments
Queer Fashion

He Said/We Said: Holiday Boston Style

We thought it was high time to let Boston dapperQs provide us with some holiday and New Year’s Eve style inspiration for our long running HS/WS project.

dapperq December 16, 2015 19 Comments
Politics + Activism

The Real Republican Frontrunner is Fear

The premise of this debate, and of much of the GOP’s current strategy, is this: there are people who want to hurt you and the ones you love, they’re all around you, and the only hope you have at protection is us.

Rachel December 16, 2015 19 Comments
Geekery

Relevant To Your Interests: Games That Made Me Drool This Year

All these games elicited a “hnnnnngggg” noise from me, whether I played them or I just want to play them. What’s on your 2015 Hnnnnngggg List?

A.E. Osworth December 16, 2015 30 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Annie Clark Crashes Cara Delevingne’s Family Christmas

Also, Lea DeLaria wants to dance for you.

Stef December 16, 2015 4 Comments
Politics + Activism

Alabama and Kansas Put LGBT Parenting Rights At Risk

A mom fights for visitation rights with her kids in Alabama, slurs yelled against protester at a Donald Trump rally, 195 countries have agreed on a new environmental policy, Daniel Holtzclaws’ conviction, and more.

Rachel December 15, 2015 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

“I Really Feel Like I Have A Home” And Other Genderqueer Highlights From 2015

“I’m not stuck somewhere in the middle of being a boy and a girl. I’m not two people. I’m not some binary. I am an experience.”

Adrian December 15, 2015 26 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

BREAKING: Ruby Rose And Phoebe Dahl Break Up, Love Remains A Lie

The pair will presumably no longer be visiting farmers’ markets together, jumping on waterslides together or taking pensive, mysterious photographs of one another.

Stef December 15, 2015 42 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide 2015: Movies, Books, Music & Media with Quality Trans Representation

We still have a long way to go when it comes to trans representation in pop culture, but the gifts in this guide are a solid step forward for trans equality.

Mey December 15, 2015 5 Comments
Geekery LGBTQ+ Businesses

Drawn to Comics: 28 Queer Women and Non-Binary Comics Creators You Can Support This Holigay Season

The holiday season is the perfect time to support your favorite queer lady and non-binary artists, whether it’s by signing up to give them monthly support through their Patreon pages or buying gifts from their online stores for all your friends and loved ones.

Mey December 15, 2015 13 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Top 10 Gay Lady Weddings That Made Us Melt in 2015

It was a great year for gay marriage, especially if you were invited to one of these fabulous, totally sweet lesbian weddings.

Carmen December 15, 2015 26 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide: Stylish Gifts for Fashion-Forward Friends

You’ve hit that spot on your list. The one friend/sibling/significant other who is so goddamn fashionable it hurts. Together, we’ll find the perfect “I can’t BELIEVE you knew!” present.

Lydia O December 15, 2015 10 Comments
Food Lists

35 Cranberry Recipes with Festive Flavor

The season for all cranberry everything is so short, but so sweet (and tart!). Here’s 35 ways to enjoy cranberries while they’re available!

Rachel December 14, 2015 5 Comments
TV Feature

The Best and Worst LGBT TV Characters of 2015

We’ve finally arrived at a place where we have enough queer characters on TV to fight about them. What a time to be alive!

the team December 14, 2015 119 Comments
House & Garden

Helping You Help Yourself #18

Giftwrapping, keeping plants alive, not screwing up your meatloaf, ending phone conversations and more!

Rachel December 14, 2015 11 Comments
Christmas

Holigay Gift Guide 2015: The Ultimate Guide to Giving Autostraddle Merch to Everyone

Now with our limited edition holiday Gal Pal sweater in olive green!

Carmen December 14, 2015 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Top 11 Times This Year Pop Culture Reminded Us Kids Are Queer and Trans Too

As long as queer kids are taking their own lives, as long as young lesbians are told that their crushes on other girls are just fleeting feelings that all straight girls have and as long as trans girls as young as age 6 are treated as sexual deviants who shouldn’t be allowed to use the bathroom, we’re going to need representation in all-ages media.

Mey December 14, 2015 69 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

22 Women Who Came Out Or Got Girlfriends In 2015

Another year, another 21 people closer to everybody being gay!

Riese December 14, 2015 35 Comments
TV Feature

My Day On The Set Of “Transparent,” Where Trans Voices Actually Get Heard

“Being one of the cool kids is a privilege I never had growing up, especially in school. I was one of the outcasts because I was different. So on Transparent, it’s like the tables have turned.”

Mey December 13, 2015 42 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Packing Under Her Skirt

A card deck illustrated with lesbian sex, putting all your crushes in a secret Facebook group, invisible labor at Kink.com, talking with your actual mouth and more.

Ryan Yates December 13, 2015 8 Comments
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