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Christmas

“Buffy, It’s Cold Outside” Is the Gayest Holiday Classic Since “Carol”

On this week’s Buffering the Vampire Slayer, Kristin Russo and Jenny Owen Youngs have rewritten the lyrics to “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” as “BUFFY, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE.”

Heather Hogan November 28, 2017 20 Comments
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Drawn to Comics: 7 Ways WB Can Learn from “Justice League” and Fix the DC Movieverse

“5. Center Your Universe on Wonder Woman, Not Batman”

Mey November 28, 2017 13 Comments
Christmas Crafts & DIY Projects

DIY Soy Massage Candles For The Holigays (and Beyond)

Pour hot wax on your partner! The perfect activity for chilly winter nights.

Laura Mandanas November 28, 2017 11 Comments
Comedy

Straight People Watch: Fall 2K17

Guess who are still not okay?

Erin November 28, 2017 68 Comments
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Watch YouTube Star Elle Mills Come Out, Feel Your Heart Grow Three Sizes

Why not cry for a good reason today!

Heather Hogan November 27, 2017 16 Comments
First Person

Monday Roundtable: What Kind of Bitch Are You?

I can and will figure out a way to do everything by myself to keep from having to be nice to someone I don’t want to be nice to. I don’t want to be nice to a lot of people.

the team November 27, 2017 43 Comments
Christmas

You’re Throwing the Legendary Theme Party of Your Dreams (with This Guide)

“Don’t half-ass a themed party. No one will ever trust you to throw a party again.”

Vanessa November 27, 2017 22 Comments
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Disney Pixar’s “Coco” Showed Me My Mexican Self On Screen Like Never Before

Everyone in the film is Mexican. Everything in the film is Mexican. Everyone and everything is me.

Mey November 27, 2017 14 Comments
Queer Fashion Shopping

This Whole Pierced Clothing Trend Is Making Me Hot

I think my years of wanting skin piercings may be over, but I’m still excited about the pierced clothing and accessories all over the place.

Nora November 27, 2017 2 Comments
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Sex

You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain

The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.

Guest November 27, 2017 2 Comments
TV Reviews

“195 Lewis” Is a Love Letter to Black, Queer Brooklyn

What I can say, with the utmost love, is that this series feels like Brooklyn. It feels like the Brooklyn that raised me and protected me as a young woman. It feels like Sisterhood. It’s funny and smart and bright and challenging.

Carmen Phillips November 27, 2017 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Loves Rock Star Quinceañeras

Lesbians who love IKEA, Laura Jane Grace rocking out for tots, and tons of queer TV on the horizon. Happy Sunday Funday!

Ari November 26, 2017 14 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is On Top

Femmes who strap on, a history of sex toys, where data fails in thinking about sex and more.

Ryan Yates November 26, 2017 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: Jingle Your Jangle, It’s Time to Talk About “Riverdale”

Plus The Shannara Chronicles blesses Eretria and Lyria with a happy ending.

Heather Hogan November 25, 2017 29 Comments
Food and Drink

Femme Brûlée: Vegan Cranberry Sauce Muffins

People generally take a spoonful of cranberry sauce, at most, leaving behind a bunch of the sweet, tart, spiced deliciousness to get tossed in the trash. It always breaks my heart. I LOVE cranberry sauce and think it deserves better so I made this recipe to remedy this issue.

Reneice Charles November 25, 2017 14 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #40: When I left Me

I helped myself find acceptance. But where do I go from here?

Yao Xiao November 25, 2017 5 Comments
Holigays

2017 Black Friday Deal Guide To Black Friday Deals You Can Get Without Getting Up This Black Friday Sale Day

Black Friday Wildfang! Black Friday Deals J Crew! Black Friday H&M Deals. Black Friday Shopping Deals. Wow Black Friday deals for queers right here, what a day we are all having right now, what a time to be alive, what a time to go shopping!!!!!!

Riese November 24, 2017 7 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Thankful For You

Mommi Mia, here we go again.

Darcy November 24, 2017 14 Comments
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S.H.E. Episode VIII: Morning People

“I’m focused. I’m driven. I’m hydrated and independent.”

Megan+Moll November 24, 2017 4 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: As Simple As Being

Women writers have friendships, too; women having control over their bodies; a poem from Eileen Myles and more.

Ryan Yates November 24, 2017 2 Comments
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