• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
Emma Claire and Lilian Rose
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows How Long Your Fingers Are

Horny people lie more, stop calling sex shops sleazy, how to dump someone you love and more.

Ryan Yates November 10, 2019 6 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is U-Hauling With D’Arcy Carden and Abbi Jacobson

News about a new A League of Their Own, U-Haul knows about U-Hauling, witchcraft, and Christmas! Happy Sunday!

Ari November 10, 2019 11 Comments
Culture

The Communist Pleasure Activism That’s Helping Erase Medical Debt in Appalachia

A queer company that makes a “fistin’ lube for lovers and others” is partnering with sexual advocacy and harm reduction groups while helping to erase tens of thousands of dollars of medical debt in West Virginia.

Lauren Parker November 9, 2019 12 Comments
Webcomics

Baopu #66: The Mental Rhythm

Not a perfect introvert or extrovert 100% of the time.

Yao Xiao November 9, 2019 10 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: When Are AHS:1984’s Final Girls Going to Make Out?!

Plus updates on Nancy Drew and HTGAWM!

The TV Team November 8, 2019 20 Comments
Lesbian Dating Apps

Some of Y’all Are Really Out Here Flexing on Tinder with Finger Measurements, Discuss

“@ me when people start doing this with fists”

Abbie Jones November 8, 2019 48 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #301: A Truly Raunchy Line Involving a Sandwich Bun and a Hairdresser

Topics include Phoebe Waller-Bridge, an Air BnB scam, tourism in Iceland, what even is Newsweek anymore, some deportations of history and more! Like an excerpt from Carmen Maria Machado’s new book!

Riese November 8, 2019 4 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Imagining Me & You – Again

Feel like Lena Headley’s following you? Maybe you should slow down and let her catch you!

Darcy November 8, 2019 14 Comments
TV News & Trailers

LGBTQ TV Characters Are at an All Time High, According to GLAAD’s “Where We Are on TV” Report

There is plenty to celebrate. And there is plenty of work to be done.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 8, 2019 7 Comments
Movie Reviews

“Let It Snow” Review: I BELIEVE IN LOVE AND I BELIEVE IN CHRISTMAS

A very merry Christmas to us all! Netflix’s new holiday movie has a queer romance!

Drew Burnett Gregory November 8, 2019 39 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 405 Recap: Okay, Time to Break Down All The Characters By Tops, Bottoms, and Switches

Last night’s Cheryl and Toni-less episode, while not all bad, was a bit blah and had very little of the content that I know you all come here to read about (gay stuff). So instead, let’s play a game of Top, Bottom, or Switch, shall we?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 7, 2019 14 Comments
woman reading at a table with a beverage in an orange mug
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit Is in the Dream House

Carmen Maria Machado’s new gothic memoir, why reading is different from experiencing, new Elena Ferrante and more.

Ryan Yates November 7, 2019 1 Comment
Book Features

Is the Resurgence of Feminist Bookstores in the South a Moment or a Movement?

Visit five feminist bookstores across the south east that are creating community building and political organizing space as well as curating feminist literature written by authors from different backgrounds holding often marginalized identities.

meagan November 7, 2019 10 Comments
kink kit
Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Kink Kit’s Spank Box

“I was curious how the Kink Kit planned on elevating this particular activity which I’ve almost always done with just a bare hand (and occasionally a paddle).”

Guest November 7, 2019 6 Comments
Relationships

You Need Help: Trusting Yourself in a New Relationship After Early Attachment Trauma

Possibly your trauma history is being triggered out of context in this relationship – but maybe it’s not. YOU are the expert, no matter what your trauma history is.

Christina Tesoro November 7, 2019 6 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

What We Love and Hate About Dating Libras

“I just know it would end badly and I’m already stressed about it because of all the processing that would inevitably have to happen!”

the team November 7, 2019 48 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: This Wacky Tig Notaro and Lena Headey Interview Will Make Your Day

You’re a wanker, number nine! Also, Shrill season two, more Queen Latifah news (but not that news), Delta puts the lesbians back in Booksmart, reality TV breakups, gay sports weddings, and more!

Heather Hogan November 6, 2019 11 Comments
Issues

When Walking It Off Stops Working

This was the way we found power over pain: Move.

Marissa H November 6, 2019 20 Comments
The Scene

The Drag Kings of Taipei

I moved to California from Shanghai at fourteen and threw myself into learning how to be an American. It’s a lot like doing drag.

Alison Tam November 6, 2019 7 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Sex, Love, and Roleplay: Using Online Roleplay to Connect to Your Partner

How I found my queer identity online, romantically connected with my partner, and how you can too in six easy steps!

Brie November 6, 2019 3 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 469 470 471 472 473 474 475 … 1,426 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • Help Me Find a Hot Plus Size Queer Outfit for a Gay Wedding
  • A Very Glee Christmas Recap: Glee Christmas Special Very Christmassy, Special
  • AF+ Crossword Is Bad at Spelling

Latest Comments

  • sunflowergirl ‘I Haven’t Felt a Spark With Anyone Since My Ex’ "Oh, I’ve just had my first “situationship” breakup several months ago and I have been so depressed since. It didn’t…"

  • Drew Burnett Gregory Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for June 2025 "“AI famously does not have a literary wife.” Such an important part of the AI debate no one else is…"

  • Bleep bloop George A. Romero’s Daughter Is Making a Gay Zombie Movie Inspired by Real-Life Queer Party Drama "You are absolutely definitely in the right place to find a man for your woman bot."

  • ocean All the Time We Had "this was so beautiful. rest in power to your friend. they sound amazing"

Latest Posts

  • As Trans People in Dallas, All We Have Are Each Other
  • New Miley Cyrus Tracks, Ranked by How Likely You’ll Hear Them at Pride Parties
  • ‘I Don’t Want To Run Into My Ex and Ex-Friend WHO ARE DATING at Pride’
  • Dawn Staley’s Memoir Welcomes a New Generation of Women’s Basketball Fans Into Her Greatness
  • George A. Romero’s Daughter Is Making a Gay Zombie Movie Inspired by Real-Life Queer Party Drama

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA