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The Comment Awards Want To Write You A Love Letter

Janelle Monáe being perfect, commenters being perfect, and the history of love.

carrie January 17, 2014 5 Comments
Camp

Introducing Camp Autostraddle 5.0

Wanna run away to the mountains to hang out with a bunch of weirdos for five days? Good news: the dream is real, and the time is now.

Riese January 17, 2014 223 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #110: That Room With The Ashtrays and The Stereo and The Bed Sheet

Topics include Saturday Night Live in the mid-90s, the cannibal cop, “Satanic Ritual Abuse,” abortion, being Korean and American, Tonya Harding and moar!

Riese January 17, 2014 12 Comments
Politics + Activism

Senate Lets Unemployment Extension Expire, F*cks Over Queers and Trans* People Affected By Recession

While the Senate works out its ridiculous issues, millions of Americans will be waiting for their checks.

Maddie January 17, 2014 9 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Sailor Moon Reboot Coming in July, Keeping It Queer For English-Speaking Fans

While the first Sailor Moon anime’s English dub was infamous for removing its lesbian couple, the 20th-anniversary reboot plans to keep the queer characters the way they were intended.

Rose January 17, 2014 30 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Episode 415 Recap: Love Shackin’ Up

In which Emily spends some quality time in bed with Alison and we return to Aria’s love shack only to discover shocking news about Hanna’s past hookups.

Lizz January 17, 2014 19 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Fosters” Episode 111 Recap: Where In The World Is Callie Sandiego?

Relationships are no picnic… but wait! Maybe they are!

Vikki Reich January 16, 2014 21 Comments
Book Lists

Let’s Celebrate Laverne Cox’s Book Deal and Read These 6 Memoirs By Trans Women Of Color

Not content with producing a documentary, greeting CeCe McDonald outside of prison and shutting it down on daytime TV, Laverne Cox added signing a book deal to her list of accomplishments in the first half of the first month of 2014.

Mey January 16, 2014 6 Comments
Relationships

How To Keep A Girl For Ten Years: To Shack Up or Not To Shack Up?

Entering into the world of monogamy and dare I say, cohabitation is a terrifying new frontier and it’s arguably much safer to stay put in the safe confines of twin beds and roomies.

RobynC January 16, 2014 17 Comments
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State of the Autostraddle Union #3: A Letter From Your Editor

What the hell is going on around here.

Riese January 16, 2014 113 Comments
Movie Features

Evan Rachel Wood Bisexual and Nikki Reed were Two Girls in Love During ‘Thirteen’

Evan Rachel Wood divulges and discusses the crush she had on Nikki Reed while filming “Thirteen” during a Q&A to honor the film’s tenth anniversary.

Brittani January 16, 2014 30 Comments
Dating

Dear Queer Diary: Looking For Love In All The Write Places

A rollicking retrospective of my journaling life as a crush monster.

Maggie January 16, 2014 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: Fortune Feimster and Veronica Mars Sing “Teen Dream”

New stand-up from Fortune Feimster, a very queer music video, the return of a lesbian webseries, and the “Veronica Mars” trailer are partying this very moment.

Brittani January 16, 2014 4 Comments
Music

BPM: Getting Wet and Bubbly With BANKS

Sex just happened in my ears and I was really not mad about it because holy Tegan and Sara this was so good.

Jeanie January 16, 2014 14 Comments
LGBT History

15 Ladies Who Were Writing Sexy Lesbian Love Letters Before You Got Born

Before there was sexting, there was inserting obvious sexual metaphors into benign-looking letters and adding romantic overtones to keep it classy.

Ryan Yates January 15, 2014 44 Comments
Queer Fashion

Queer Outfit of the Week: It’s Cold Inside the Party!

Who doesn’t have a friend who insists on throwing parties at their apartment despite the fact that they always keep the heat at 50 degrees and leave the back door open so her cat can get out? With that in mind, I present to you just the warmest coolest outfit for when it’s still cold inside the party.

Lizz January 15, 2014 5 Comments
Book Features

Hot New Lit Journal qu.ee/r Is Here With “A Call To Adventure”!

This issue proves that that’s possible — there’s gobs of work out there made by queer artists that isn’t confined to coming out stories, identity struggles, or crushes on straight girls, and it’s really good.

Rachel January 15, 2014 8 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: Vulvas Taste Like Vulvas

If you’re nervous you won’t like vulva taste, this post is for you.

A.E. Osworth January 15, 2014 102 Comments
Geekery

Strong Female Protagonist Is The Perfect Superhero Comic Even If You Don’t Like Superheroes

“Strong Female Protagonist” is a wonderful superhero comic that places more importance on the humanity of it’s characters than their super-humanity. It tells the story of Alison Green (formerly Mega-Girl) as she tries to negotiate post-superhero life.

Mey January 15, 2014 7 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: CeCe McDonald, Beyoncé, and Laura Jane Grace Raise Their Middle Fingers to the Man and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Bow down, bitches.

Carmen January 15, 2014 10 Comments
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