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You Should Go: PUSSY RIOT! Book Launch in NYC

Join Justin Vivian Bond, Barbara Browning, Vivien Goldman, Karen Finley, Johanna Fateman, Eileen Myles, and Laurie Weeks as they read from the new print edition of PUSSY RIOT! A Punk Prayer for Freedom at Barnes & Noble Union Square on February 7.

Gabrielle Korn February 1, 2013 2 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Saved A Woman Like Me

In which we talk puppies, cheese-based religions and collectively gawk at Intern Grace and Gabby.

carrie February 1, 2013 8 Comments
Community

You Should Go: Queer Ladies Speed Dating At Strand Bookstore, Valentine’s Day Edition

Books. Champagne. Gabby and Katrina. Cute queer single girls. How can you say no? (You can’t. So we’ll see ya at The Strand!)

Vanessa February 1, 2013 21 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #61: White Rabbits White Rabbits

Topics include karaoke, faith-based slavery in an Angola prison, Greek politics, chronic pain, emotional abuse, Richard Pryor, The Golden Dawn, murder, fantasyland and more!

Riese February 1, 2013 14 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Pretty Little Liars Recap 317: Out of the Frying Pan and Into the Lesbian Bar

This week on Pretty Little Liars some casual stalking leads one of our Liars all the way to a lesbian bar! No, for real!

Lizz February 1, 2013 32 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: Real Talk About Your First Strap-On

“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”

A.E. Osworth February 1, 2013 56 Comments
Playlists

Autostraddle Commenter’s Own Most Beautiful Songs in the World Playlist is Now Streaming on Spotify

Laura’s Team Pick: You know how you know your website has really amazing readers? When one of them reads through 236 comments to compile a playlist, it’s a pretty good clue that you’ve got good people hanging around.

Laura February 1, 2013 17 Comments
Gender

Original Plumbing Needs Your Love, Support, Cold Hard Cash ASAP

Original Plumbing deserves a new website, and in the spirit of brotherhood and the revolution and Autostraddle redesign karmic juices, I’m urging you to make it happen.

Carmen February 1, 2013 4 Comments
Straddleverse

Autostraddle Calendar Girls 2014: Chloe and Intern Grace are Double Miss February

Chloe’s beauty is beyond compare, with flaming locks of auburn hair, with ivory skin and eyes of dark coffee. And Intern Grace? Well, her smile is like a breath of spring, her voice is soft like summer rain and no one can compete with her, yipee!

Robin February 1, 2013 77 Comments
First Person

A Prairie Homo Companion: Prairie Homo Catholic Contradictions

“I took a long bus ride to the “good” school where I could learn how to speak French and be Catholic, where the girls, instead of pretending to be dragons from Harry Potter, gossiped about which Backstreet Boy they’d eventually marry.”

Malaika January 31, 2013 15 Comments
Politics + Activism

“Marrying Well” Might Be Important For British Men, Is Not Necessarily Evidence of Feminism

“When asked whether their daughters thought their financial future was dependent on having a husband, only 31.9 per cent agreed. By contrast 37.7 per cent of those with sons thought having a wife would make them financially secure.”

A.E. Osworth January 31, 2013 7 Comments
Politics + Activism

We’ll Probably Win A Thing: Colorado’s Civil Unions Bill Looks Promising

Colorado’s probably going to have civil unions soon! Totally counting these chickens before they hatch; feel ok about it.

Hansen January 31, 2013 6 Comments
Culture

Here’s A Chance to Share Your Very Own Memoir With The World

I’m going to participate in The Memoir Project and of course I think you should too.

Vanessa January 31, 2013 18 Comments
First Person

Westward Homo! In Which We Pack It In, Load It Up, Party Down and Get Out Of Town

In the first of a series charting newlyweds Robin & Carly’s move from NYC to California, the ladies find a new place, pack and ponder leaving their world behind for a big bright temperate tomorrow!

Robin January 31, 2013 22 Comments
Politics + Activism

Anti-Gay Groups Going Broke For Breaking Our Hearts

With groups that oppose gay marriage finding it hard to find money to do so, the tide may be more decisively turning in gay rights’ favor.

Rose January 31, 2013 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Brittani’s Video Party: 25 Ways to Piss Off Tegan and Sara

Tegan and Sara bring the funny, 25 ways to piss off your girlfriend, and 2 new lesbian web series. There are lots of real life lesbians in this video party. You’re gonna love it.

Brittani January 31, 2013 16 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Canada’s Census Actually Provides Data on Gay People and Other Stories We Missed This Week

Hillary Clinton is so over your bullshit.

Carmen January 30, 2013 21 Comments
Politics + Activism

Obama Wants Same-Sex Immigration Reform, Congress Prefers to Just Argue About It Forever

A Canadian’s take on how backwards the struggle to get immigration reform for same-sex couples has turned out to be.

Malaika January 30, 2013 7 Comments
The Scene

Time Out New York Wants You To Date Gabby

Vanessa’s Team Pick: Time Out New York magazine thinks you should date Gabby and obviously we wholeheartedly agree.

Vanessa January 30, 2013 32 Comments
Book Features

How Sick Is “Sick Lit”?

“We were thirteen years old, and these stories confirmed our suspicions that the world was a cruel, sad place, riddled with surprise tragedies and untimely deaths.”

Riese January 30, 2013 51 Comments
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