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Christmas Quizzes

Quiz: Which Lesbian Christmas Movie Are You?

Did you leave your gloves at Frankenbergs? Are you clinging to your favorite spruce tree? Are you warming up for the big Christmas cook-off? Find out which Sapphic Christmas movie you are in here, right now.

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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #343: Cinnabon, Food Delivery, Lost Vegas, Chat GPT Divorce, Etc

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Riese December 13, 2025 3 Comments
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I Feel Weird About My Wife Hiring a Sex Worker

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the team December 12, 2025 1 Comment
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Pluribus Episode 7 Recap: Resistance Requires Risk

Manousos Oviedo wishes to save the world.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 12, 2025 27 Comments
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A Short History of the ‘Nonbinary Barista’

It’s an open secret that gay people make the best coffee. 

Keira Mac Neill December 12, 2025 1 Comment
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You’ve Gotta Get Your Hands on the Second Issue of Our Queer Print Magazine

This season’s hottest holiday gift — for yourself or the best queers you know — is queer media you can hold in your hands, and keep forever, no matter what happens.

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December 11, 2025 9 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Movie Features

In Time-Honored Musical Theater Tradition, Almost Everyone in the ‘Wicked’ Movie Is Gay

Who all’s gay in the Wicked cast? Turns out, a lot of them!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 11, 2025 15 Comments
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A New Bisexual Has Entered the Bravosphere

Audrey Lingle of the new Vanderpump Rules reboot says she has dated women and men.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 11, 2025
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: I’m 0% Surprised Robby Hoffman Is a Sagittarius

Plus, what Chappell Roan, Melissa Bode, Cynthia Erivo, Liv Hewson, and more queer celebs have been up to.

Christina Tucker December 10, 2025
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Book Features

ND Stevenson on Picking Back Up the Pirate Fantasy Project He Started as a Teen

“I will read or watch any pirate story, but I have strong opinions about them.”

Rendy Jones December 10, 2025 5 Comments
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Relationships

‘I Can’t Stop Obsessing Over My Girlfriend’s Ex-Girlfriend’

“Recently, I’ve found myself looking her ex’s profile or looking at old pictures of them on my girlfriend’s Instagram multiple times a day. I zoom in on the pictures & take in every detail, even going so far as to note how she does her makeup and attempting to replicate it sometimes.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 9, 2025 1 Comment
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Book Lists

Our Most Anticipated Queer Books for December 2025

There’s lots of new queer history and nonfiction coming your way this month, plus other picks across every genre!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
December 9, 2025 2 Comments
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First Person

Wicked Florida Dreams: Queer Defenses From Within a Red Swamp

Over and over again, we practice evasion. Ducking. Blocking. Parrying. Weaving. Running.

Gina Paris Ellis Marks December 9, 2025 4 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Tig Notaro Is Giving Us Some Hot Lesbian Action

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Department of Justice Halts Protections for Incarcerated Trans and Intersex People

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Stef Rubino December 8, 2025 5 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Archetypal Queer Holiday Gift Are You?

Here is my gift to you: a quiz about gifts.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 7, 2025 9 Comments
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Christmas Shopping

Holiday Gift Guide: What To Buy for Someone Who Is Very Tired

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Em Win December 6, 2025 1 Comment
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In “HDP”, Carol drives to Las Vegas to pay a little visit to her fellow survivor Koumba Diabaté, who is living his wildest fantasies in the land of artifice and hedonism.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 5, 2025 25 Comments
HOUSTON- August 18: 1992 Republican National Convention Protests. Queer Nation and ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power) activists protest the Republican Party, the American government's negligence in the AIDS crisis, anti-gay policies of the Catholic Church, and anti-gay policies of the U.S. military at the Mickey Leland Federal Office Building on August 18, 1992 in Houston, Texas. (Photo by Lindsay Brice/Getty Images)
LGBT History

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The LGBTQ press has long been committed to documenting and resisting homophobia and transphobia. This is particularly true at the local level: By reporting on local news, politics, art, and events, LGBTQ reporters use media as a tool to expose and fight back against right wing politics. 

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Am I Allowed To Get Mad At My Flaky Friend?

Your friend says she’s trying her hardest to show up despite her mental illness, but you’re still frustrated. Also: how to manage lingering feelings about someone you dated during a poly phase.

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