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Geekery Lesbian Weddings

Queer Your Tech Gets Married: 10 Super Useful Tools for Wedding Planning

Here’s a little technology that’s useful for planning a big queer wedding!

A.E. Osworth October 15, 2016 11 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Hard to Read

On coming out to your Dad who that is giving you NOTHING to go off.

Cameron October 15, 2016 20 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: “How To Get Away With Murder” Is Always Best When It’s Gay

Eve and Annalise are the best (and the most heartbreaking), Younger is back and gayer than ever, Arizona returns to Grey’s with a smile, Rosewood is actually doing something with its queer couple this season, two new lesbians on ABC sitcoms, and more queer TV!

Heather Hogan October 14, 2016 60 Comments
Politics + Activism

A New Study Finds Women Aren’t Conflicted About Having An Abortion, They’re Pretty Sure of It

A new study shows women who seek an abortion are pretty certain they want to go through with it, Michelle Obama’s latest speech is fantastic, women protest outside Trump Tower, the ACLU finds social media companies are selling user data to a company used by cops and more news.

Yvonne October 14, 2016 10 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Has A New Best Friend

This week we’ve got feelings on Kristen Stewart, future Sarah Paulson, stock photography models’ dreams, and so much more!

Bren October 14, 2016 15 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Carmilla” Season Three, Act Three Recap: Happily Ever After

This was a deadly year for queer TV characters. We really needed this.

Karly October 14, 2016 38 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: I’m Trapped in My Living Room. Send Help. Bring Food.

Hello! I’m super excited to see your face today because I’m home with Baby T. Rex and don’t remember what it’s like to socialize with a grown-up human. Come chill on the sofa with me and tell me what’s up in the world outside my living room!

KaeLyn October 14, 2016 235 Comments
Halloween

Gay Group Halloween Costume Idea: Be the Hilarious Queer Women of “Suicide Kale”

This summer we saw the release of a new iconic lesbian film starring four women who are just perfect for a group costume this year. That movie is Suicide Kale.

Mey October 13, 2016 5 Comments
Politics + Activism

Damn This New York Times Response to Donald Trump’s Lawsuit Threat Is Everything

“It would have been a disservice not just to our readers but to democracy itself to silence their voices. We did what the law allows: We published newsworthy information about a subject of deep public concern.”

Yvonne October 13, 2016 49 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Why Have Privacy When You Can Have Rage

No women won the Nobel Prize, on women’s privacy and how Elena Ferrante got doxxed, how witches are a way to write about women’s power, lesbian YA covers through the years and more.

Ryan Yates October 13, 2016 13 Comments
Theater

Sins Invalid’s “Birthing, Dying, Becoming Crip Wisdom” Features Crip Art, Activism, Love & Liberation

“We deserve to have art that is by us and for us and is us being complicated and depicting all our lives as they are, without simplifying or reassuring.”

Tovah October 13, 2016 5 Comments
Geekery

“Until Dawn” Takes You Inside Every Trashy Horror Movie Trope

It’s surprisingly beautiful for a game that features multiple beheadings.

dufrau October 13, 2016 29 Comments
Book Features

Conversation with White Friends: Sara Quin, Amber Dawn, Rae Spoon & Dannielle Owens-Reid

Why is that people of colour have to bear the brunt of speaking out about racism while white people enjoy the privilege of remaining silent? What happens when the tables are turned?

Vivek Shraya October 13, 2016 21 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Maggie Sawyer’s Got Swagger In The New “Supergirl” Promos

Plus the trailer for the final season of Black Sails, a sweet interview with Tig Notaro about motherhood, Samantha Bee’s personal Vagina Monologue, Abby Wambach’s inexplicable USMNT commentary, a new Kate Moennig movie and more pop culture news!

Heather Hogan October 13, 2016 72 Comments
Gender

Black Trans Woman Brandi Bledsoe Is At Least the 23rd Trans Person Murdered This Year in US

“Not even a week ago we were reporting on the murder of another Black trans woman, Jazz Alford, and now, here we are again. I’m extremely sorry to report that this time her name is Brandi Bledsoe, and she was 32 years old and she was from Cleveland, Ohio.”

Mey October 12, 2016 7 Comments
Book Features LGBT History

38 Lesbian Magazines That Burned Brightly, Died Hard, Left A Mark

AfterEllen is a part of a legacy of brilliant publications created by passionate lesbian, queer and bisexual women that unfortunately no longer exist, but were cool for a while.

Riese October 12, 2016 32 Comments
Music

Not As Weak As We Seem: How Punk Band G.L.O.S.S. Gave Trans Women Our Voice

“Art made by and for marginalized people is vital. It allows us to connect our experiences with others and empowers us by showing us that we are not alone. G.L.O.S.S. resonated with so many trans women because their songs reflected a lived experience which validated our own.”

Sophie October 12, 2016 11 Comments
Politics + Activism

Rebel Girls: 10 Women Who Want to Save Congress from Itself

These women are running for open seats in elections pitting them against Republicans or are fighting like hell to overthrow incumbent Republicans. That matters!

Carmen October 12, 2016 12 Comments
LGBTQ+ Businesses

Shut Up And Take My Money: 15 Super Queer Etsy Stores

There are so many things you can queer your life with: chokers, buttons, zines, prints, coffee mugs, shirts! Everything you can’t find at a thrift store, you can find on Etsy.

Cecelia October 12, 2016 17 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #7: Can We Talk?

That’s it! That’s the year 2016!

Dickens October 12, 2016 3 Comments
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