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Love + Sex

Y’All Need Help #17: You Don’t Know How Any of This Will End

You don’t want to wear a dress but also don’t want to disappoint your family, you’re not as excited about your girlfriend as you used to be, and your girlfriend doesn’t know if she’ll still be with you next year. Get in here!

Laneia December 30, 2017 16 Comments
Webcomics

Yo! That’s Not Cool #6: My 2018 Reclamations

It’s about time I became 100% me.

Brittney Williams December 30, 2017 13 Comments
Holigays

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD & ROUNDTABLE: It’s Gonna Be A Happy New Year!

We’re over New Year’s resolutions – here’s what we’re looking forward to in 2018. What about you?

the team December 30, 2017 98 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

34 LGBTQ Women Who Came Out LGBTQ, Got Girlfriends or Showed Up in 2017

Look out world, everyone is gay and here’s the proof.

Riese December 29, 2017 22 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Counting Down to Midnight

“Hanging out with Mallory Ortberg would be like a slo-mo acid trip in the Getty Museum.”

Darcy December 29, 2017 20 Comments
Queer Fashion

We Deserve to Wear These Perfect Bralettes All the Time in 2018

Sporty? Flirty? Femme? Whatever your underwear vibe is, bralettes are here for you, and they’re SO COMFORTABLE.

Mey December 29, 2017 23 Comments
LGBTQ+ Businesses

Top 13 Things I Bought From the Autostraddle Store in 2017

I bought some amazing stuff from the Autostraddle merch store and I want to tell you all about it!!!!

Ari December 29, 2017 12 Comments
Gender

What It Means To Call Ourselves Non-Binary: An Autostraddle Roundtable

Non-binary does not mean the same thing to a single one of us. We’re all super nervous to talk about it in public, though!

Ari December 28, 2017 56 Comments
Politics + Activism

Black Lesbian Couple and Two Children Found Brutally Murdered in Upstate New York

An 11-year old boy, a 5-year old girl, their 36-year-old mother and her 22-year-old girlfriend were found murdered in their basement apartment in what police are calling “not a random act.”

Riese December 28, 2017 24 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

26 Celebrity Gal Pals Who Made Us Swoon In 2017

Is love a lie? PROBABLY, but these couples charmed the heck out of us this year anyway.

Stef December 28, 2017 13 Comments
Queer Fashion

Kidd Bell’s New Clothing and Accessories Support Charity, Are Very Gay

You bought all your gals and pals gifts for the holigays and now it’s time to get yourself a gift — and if that gift happens to benefit others through good causes like The Trevor Project and Planned Parenthood, even better!

Nora December 28, 2017 1 Comment
House & Garden

This Queer House, Vol 9: End of Year Mailbag

This month, we tackle reader-submitted questions and run through a step-by-step tutorial for rewiring a lamp.

Jenna December 28, 2017 8 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Ryan Murphy’s New Show “Pose” Will Feature an Astonishing 50+ LGBT Characters

Plus: Jodie Whittaker takes over the TARDIS, Mary and Mel and Sue reunited for Christmas, some Steven Universe ballet, the new Grace & Frankie trailer, and more!

Heather Hogan December 27, 2017 11 Comments
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Politics + Activism

“The Alternative Is Awful”: Sexual Justice Pioneer Carol Queen on Why Sexual Justice Needs to Evolve

“Sexual justice has to adapt. The alternative is awful.”

Creatrix Tiara December 27, 2017 6 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

10 Times Black Women Slayed in 2017

Despite the world working as hard as ever to prevent us from doing so, black women — especially queer black women — did a whole lot of slaying in 2017.

Reneice Charles December 27, 2017 13 Comments
Webcomics

Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #37: Two Thousand Seventeen

“Happy New Year, tender queers…”

A. Andrews December 27, 2017 15 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Of Course Samira Wiley and Lauren Morelli Had Matching Christmas Pajamas

Also, Jasika Nicole is lost in the woods and you’ll prooooobably want to know about Evan Rachel Wood’s new years resolution.

Stef December 27, 2017 20 Comments
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Geekery

Notes From A Queer Engineer: SpaceX Satellite Launches and Librarians Saving the Internet

Morning showers or night showers, fun facts about reindeers, a map of gender diverse cultures and more links!

Laura Mandanas December 27, 2017 9 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

The 12 Best Lesbian, Bisexual and Trans Latinx Pop Culture Moments of 2017

Whether you’re Mexican, Puerto Rican, Costa Rican, Cuban, Panamanian or Argentinian, there were great examples of queer Latinidad for you.

Mey December 26, 2017 8 Comments
Television TV Show Recaps

“Marvel’s Runaways” Episode 108 Recap: Off-The-Rails

Victor and Frank are at the bottom of this week’s power rankings.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 26, 2017 10 Comments
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