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Health Queer Pregnancy

Bearing Life With and Alongside: On Masculinity, Pregnancy, and Medical Trauma

I hadn’t experienced transphobic violence in medicalized form before. But I’d experienced it in many others: in punches and pushes, through threats with weapons, or by being run off the road by cars while I was on foot.

Grover Wehman-Brown November 19, 2018 10 Comments
Issues Queer Fashion

Monday Roundtable: The First Queer People Who Pinged Our Gaydars With Their Style

“I’d actually never even seen a woman in a blazer before. Like a men’s cut blazer. It really was like Fun Home. Inside I really did feel like I KNOW YOU!”

the team November 19, 2018 25 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Sneaking Out With Michelle Obama to Rally Around the Gays

Michelle Obama’s a true ally, Sue Bird’s joining the NBA, Brandi Carlile learns that Pluto isn’t a planet anymore, a rap for RBG and more!

Ari November 18, 2018 3 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Pubic Hair

This week, the internet got obsessed with pubic hair. Also: how to be more dominant in bed, sexts to send when you’re out of ideas, the hot new trend of later-in-life lesbianism and more.

Ryan Yates November 18, 2018 5 Comments
Politics + Activism

Be The Change: Battling Activist Burnout

“I share all this because I feel like everyone I know is struggling to keep it together lately, to have-it-all or to be-everything-to-everyone or to fight-the-good-fight.”

KaeLyn November 17, 2018 12 Comments
Webcomics

Some Things: Backwards Meditation

Shhhhsh-sh-sh. I have one minute left.

Cameron November 17, 2018 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “All American” Just Keeps Getting Its Lesbian Story Right

All American tackles internalized homphobia, Charmed gives Mel a devastating choice, Eleanor Shellstrop is horny even when she’s getting dragged into hell, AU! Charlie returns to Supernatural, Beth and Valencia are leaving Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, and more!

The TV Team November 16, 2018 14 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Make a Fall TV Progress Report Together!

Let’s have a check in about fall TV!

Valerie Anne November 16, 2018 76 Comments
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KaeLyn Rich’s “Girls Resist!” Is a Guidebook for Intersectional Feminist Superheroes

“It’s the urgency of being a girl, in the broadest sense of that admittedly binary term, of being a marginalized person and knowing in your heart that you have the power to change your world.”

Heather Hogan November 16, 2018 32 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Singing Karaoke In a Chunky Sweater

“My mom watched The L Word before I did, so really this must be her fault.”

Darcy November 16, 2018 14 Comments
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Blobs Get Dressed

Blobs explore what getting dressed feels like.

blobs feeling things November 16, 2018 36 Comments
TV Reviews

Hulu’s “The Bisexual” Is Here to Make Every Queer a Little Uncomfortable

What impresses me most about The Bisexual isn’t that it skewers The Discourse, but that it ignores it completely in favor of having an actual conversation.

Heather Hogan November 15, 2018 29 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 305 Recap: Less Game, More Gay Please

Life is a roleplaying game and the roleplaying game is life.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 15, 2018 4 Comments
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Issues

The Implication of a Bag

“I was unwilling to buy a binder. It seemed like a declaration, the kind I was nowhere near ready to make yet. But for that winter, I had the bag.”

L. B. November 15, 2018 17 Comments
Movie Lists

The 15 Best Lesbian and Bisexual Movies of 2018

It’s been a banner year for queer women on the big screen!

Heather Hogan November 15, 2018 18 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Black Lightning” Episode 205 Recap: The One with the Hot Sex (and a Death)

We can finally settle it: Anissa Pierce is a top! Here’s some hot lesbian sex, tinged with a bit of angst and sadness, coming your way!

Carmen Phillips November 14, 2018 14 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Out 100 Honors Cynthia Nixon, Hayley Kiyoko, Mara Wilson and Other Girlfriends Of Yours

Topics include a hot Out 100, Celine Dion smashing the gender binary, Kehlani on being pan & preggers, “The Gilda Stories” becoming a movie, Stan Lee’s date with Patricia Highsmith, “8 Celebs Who’ve Opened Up About Their Lesbian Affairs” and more!

Riese November 14, 2018 9 Comments
TV Reviews

Netflix’s “She-Ra and the Princesses of Power” Is the Gay Agenda

Noelle Stevenson’s remake of the short-lived but much beloved cartoon series is a brilliant homage to the original Gal Pals of Etheria and an absolute masterclass in feminist storytelling.

Heather Hogan November 14, 2018 25 Comments
Politics + Activism

Trump Administration Continues to Decimate Asylum Process, Putting LGBTQ Migrants at Risk

A new executive order from Trump changes the rules for how someone has to have entered the US to apply for asylum, leaving many immigrants — including LGBT migrants seeking asylum — in dangerous limbo.

Raquel November 14, 2018 4 Comments
Friendship

Getting in Bed With Kristin: Advice About Meeting New Friends, Falling for Friends and More!

Happy Thanksgiving from Sam the Cat!

Kristin November 14, 2018 1 Comment
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