Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Evan Rachel Wood And Kate Moennig Are Still Friends, I’m Fine, Everything’s Fine

Also, Danielle Brooks is an actual sparkle princess and Hayley Kiyoko introduces me to my new favorite athletic league.

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Sex

How To Give (Or Get) a Strap-On Blow Job

Strap-on blow jobs are subversive and super hot. Learn how to give or get one right here.

Television TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 311 Recap: Space Girls

This female-focused episode of Supergirl kicked ass and took names.

Geekery

Katchoo and Francine are Back in “Strangers in Paradise XXV”

It’s secrets and intrigue and lesbian looooove and just so very Terry Moore.

Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Michelle Perez and Remy Boydell Talk Trans Sex Work, TV Influences and Their Comic “The Pervert”

Over the last two years, a story about a trans girl living in Seattle and surviving through sex work was published in issues of ISLAND Magazine. Now, It’s being put together as one book, The Pervert, by Michelle Perez and Remy Boydell.

First Person

Bad Religion

“Here was a community where race apparently didn’t matter, because we were all humans, made in the image of God. Where a pacifist, sensitive, caring Jesus was the primary male role model. I finally felt at home. I was promised complete acceptance and understanding, and all I had to give was… well, everything.”

Queer Fashion

Style Thief: Kat Sandoval in Black Tie

Once again Sara Ramirez as Kat Sandoval has overwhelmed us. I’m here to help you steal her style.

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Health

Winter Gym Class: Learn to Play Basketball, the Gayest Sport of All

Yes, basketball is fun to watch (it helps that so many WNBA players are just dreamy). But it’s also fun to play! This edition of Gym Class will help you figure out which position you’re best suited for, learn the proper set up for shots, and try out some practice drills solo or with a partner.

AF+

VIDEO! Getting In Bed with Kristin + Erin: First Dates

Erin Sullivan joined me in bed last week to report from the field on HOW TO DO FIRST DATES. All you need to know, plus Jenny joins and shares with us her thoughts on “bringing a worksheet for you both to fill out.” We are so good at this. (Oh, and also the ring light made us ghosts.)

Geekery

“Doki Doki Literature Club” Doesn’t Subvert Dating Sim Misogyny as Much as It Thinks It Does

Rather than simply acknowledging the ridiculous trope of no female agency in dating sims and attempting to explain it away from a meta perspective, I wish the game had instead just given the girls more agency.

Movie Reviews

“Lizzie” Review: Kristen Stewart and Chloë Sevigny Have Hot Barn Sex, Axe-Murder a Man Together

Misery loves company. We know where this tale inevitably leads, but some pleasure precedes the axe.

Playlists

Playlist: My 2018 Brand Is Masculine Nerd Witch

I’m taking back power this year, after a year of feeling so powerless. I’m reveling in the parts of me that feel most like me.

Geekery Shopping

Relevant To Your Interests: Be The Gym Leader

I do not like gyms. They smell like people. Not in the good way. Here’s some nerd gear to get you through.

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TV Feature

Monday Roundtable: What Reality Show/Game Show Would You Destroy?

“Does anyone at the CIA who is for sure reading this want to hire me?”

NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Sex On Shrooms

Why you should be careful about sex on shrooms, rumbly vs buzzy vibrators, dating as a hobby, why “microcheating” is absurd and more.

Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Saluting Helen Grace James, 90-Year-Old Lesbian American Hero!

Helen James wins her case and is generally a real American hero I can get behind, new documentary about Black lesbian playwright Lorraine Hansberry, Sarah Waters on 20 years of Tipping the Velvet, Joan Greene is yet another LGBT candidate running in 2018, Melissa Etheridge wants an uprising of love, and more good stuff!