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Movie Lists

20 Movies About Friendship and Misandry For When You Want to Burn it All Down

Just some gal pals who righteously and gleefully killed their predators, who ruined powerful men’s lives and careers.

Carmen Phillips October 8, 2018 69 Comments
dear casey: there's so much about our relationship that i thought was normal. you were my first so I trusted your version of reality. I didn't know not to.
First Person

A Birthday Party No One Else Was Invited To

The first time someone described Casey as having “stalkerish” tendencies, I defended her. For the most part though, I didn’t talk about it.

Abbie October 8, 2018 20 Comments
AF+ Breakups

A+ Mini-Roundtable: Oh, This Old Thing? It Used to Belong to My Ex

Finders keepers…

the team October 8, 2018 34 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is a Fool for Alyson Stoner’s New Queer Music Video

In a world guaranteed to make you frown, we’ve curated a list of things guaranteed to make you smile. Including: Brandi Carlile at ACL, Janelle Monae and Tessa Thompson in Lady and the Tramp, a comedy about Emily Dickinson, and intergenerational queer activists! Happy Sunday!

Ari October 7, 2018 22 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Keeping Sex Weird

How to get into anal, how to winterize a vagina, why couples who post a lot on social media are probably doomed, why weird sex is good sex and more.

Ryan Yates October 7, 2018 5 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: The Soft Underbelly of a Hard Femme Mama

I love how soft I am postpartum. It’s a reminder of how my body stretched and grew and changed to grow a tiny human. I didn’t know I could be that strong and that soft simultaneously. I didn’t know my softness could be my strength.

KaeLyn October 6, 2018 68 Comments
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Yo! That’s Not Cool #13: Birthday Box

“Every time I try to put myself in a box I always break free.”

Brittney Williams October 6, 2018 5 Comments
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Boobs on Your Tube: Peach Salinger Joins an Elite Squad on This Week’s “You”

Plus: How to Get Away With Murder does a gay thing, 9-1-1 does a good thing and doesn’t kill its gay; and updates on Mayans M.C., The Purge, Young and the Restless, Grey’s Anatomy, and Station 19!

The TV Team October 5, 2018 7 Comments
Halloween

55 Fictional Witches, Ranked by Lesbianism

Once I saw Heather Hogan stop a man who had been calling her “doll” in his tracks by asking him “What’s your name, buddy?” and that’s the same energy as Endora refusing to remember Darrin’s name correctly.

Rachel October 5, 2018 107 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: How Do You Stand Up For Yourself Like A Boss At Work?

Standing up for yourself at work: Intimidating? You bet. Necessary? That too. So let’s talk about it!

Carrie October 5, 2018 46 Comments
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The Comment Awards Like You Just the Way You Are

We finally, somehow, got through this week, my loves! Have some water! Pet a dog! Hurl a straight white cis man into the sun!

Darcy October 5, 2018 31 Comments
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The Astro Boy of Asbury Park

The classic manga and anime character reimagined as a non-binary teen growing up in New Jersey.

Annie Mok October 5, 2018 2 Comments
Queer Fashion Straddleverse

Call for Submissions: But Make It Fashion

Submissions are now open for our next quarterly theme issue: But Make It Fashion.

The Editors October 4, 2018 10 Comments
TV Reviews

Maya Rudolph’s “Forever” Is Finally Here, Quietly Queer

What I’m trying to say is: Forever is like if Portlandia had a baby with San Junipero and it grew up watching only Spike Jonze and Richard Linklater films.

Heather Hogan October 4, 2018 11 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

“Adventures in New America”: A Black Lesbian Stars in This Afrofuturist Podcast From the Producers of “Night Vale”

This is the science fiction black people rarely get to star in, but I’m still a little wary.

A. Tony Jerome October 4, 2018 7 Comments
Food Lists

Trader Joe’s Pumpkin Products, Ranked By Jack-o’-Lantern Emojis

“If I were Pac-Woman and these pumpkin rolls were the little dots in the maze I had to eat, I would win every time.”

Yvonne October 4, 2018 34 Comments
Comedy

This Woman Asking for Advice About Her Gay Affair Should Leave Her Husband, Be Gay, Do Crimes

This week, the Sun published a fascinating letter in their Dear Deidre advice column, in which a (presumably straight?) (presumably real???) married woman describes falling in love with another young mother at her child’s school and wonders if their tawdry extramarital affair is built to last.

Stef October 3, 2018 73 Comments
First Person

How We Feel About Being Fat

A reader requested a roundtable where Autostraddle’s fat staff talk about how fatness, diet culture, and body positivity, relate to our queerness, identity, and gender. We aim to please, so here we are!

Vanessa October 3, 2018 91 Comments
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Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #57: Autonomy

As if there’s value in being a person who never needs anyone.

A. Andrews October 3, 2018 21 Comments
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No Filter: Beth Ditto Got Engaged and it’s Cute as Heck

Also, Hayley Kiyoko got the hot car and Samira Wiley wants to dance with somebody.

Stef October 3, 2018 20 Comments
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