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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Squish, a Cute Little Thing From Unbound

In which three powerful women come together to discuss the same vibrator.

the team April 20, 2019 7 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes: Taurus Season Means It’s Time for Practical Magic

Taurus is a season of practical magic, a time when we learn how to balance independence and intensity with deliberation, focus, and comfort.

meg April 20, 2019 11 Comments
Parenting & Family

Raising Baby T. Rex: Having It All Is a Big, Heteronormative Lie

What I’ve learned is that parents and moms especially, even cool radical-minded queer moms, even boss-lady moms with lots of confidence in their own abilities, really can’t escape the “working mom” BS.

KaeLyn April 20, 2019 13 Comments
TV Feature

Juliana Valdés of “Amar a Muerte” Is the National Champion of Coming Out Stories!

“This isn’t wrong. Love is not a perversion, okay? And you know what? This is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever felt in my whole life.”

Natalie April 19, 2019 14 Comments
Politics + Activism

Queer Journalist and LGBT Rights Activist Lyra McKee Killed in a Terrorist Incident in Northern Ireland

“Lyra was a ball of energy, passion and wit. To know her even a little was an inspiration.”

Molly Priddy April 19, 2019 7 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Game of Thrones’ Lone Lesbian Lives!

Yara returns to the Iron Islands, Sara Lance and her biceps return to Star City, and The Chi returns to Showtime.

The TV Team April 19, 2019 17 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Happy Almost 4/20, What’s Your Favorite Vice?

BLAZE ITTTTT!!! Happy Friday let’s talk about our vices!

Ari April 19, 2019 69 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Celebrating You, and Also These Butches

“Relationship Milestone: Buying a two-pack of coconut oil to make vegan gingerbread for her, then never hanging out again.”

Darcy April 19, 2019 19 Comments
Jewish Holidays Recipes

Vegetarian Chopped Liver and Pynk Pickled Eggs for Passover: A Two-Part Recipe

This vegetarian, kitniyot-free vegetarian chopped liver feels really homey and comfortable and hearty and celebratory. Chag Pesach sameach!

Ari April 19, 2019 4 Comments
TV Reviews

“The Magicians” Makes Magic Out of Pain in a Finale Full of Big Queer Feelings

The Magicians finale was all about making magic out of pain and choosing your family.

Valerie Anne April 18, 2019 9 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Episode 318 Recap: The Power of Grief

Oh great, now Toni’s in the farm, too.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 18, 2019 4 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Tegan and Sara are Ready to Take You Back to High School

Plus: Stevie Nicks, the TIME 100, the 20th anniversary of Columbine, and an entire section dedicated Beyoncé’s “Homecoming” just because we can!

Carmen Phillips April 18, 2019 10 Comments
Dating

What to Do About Every Gay Crush You’ve Ever Had, Have Now, and Will Have in the Future

Crushes are wild and often irrational, but I’m a Capricorn so I’d like to make them slightly more logical. Here’s how you can do that, too.

Vanessa April 18, 2019 28 Comments
Culture

Queer Women Truly Are More Likely to Be Tree-Hugging Hippies

“Although not all of us are saving our shower water to nourish the eggplants growing next to our chicken coop, our study and several others show that we are indeed more environmentally aware than our heterosexual counterparts.”

Riese April 18, 2019 7 Comments
Movie Lists

15 LGBT Documentaries on Kanopy, Free Streaming Film Goldmine

Not all libraries have Kanopy access, but if yours does, you are hot to trot, my friend. Much like the subjects of the documentary about same-sex ballroom dancing, Hot to Trot, discussed within! Just a little LGBT documentary humor for you. 

Rachel April 17, 2019 12 Comments
Visual Art

Look At These Butch Heroes

It’s time to celebrate the butches that make this world better.

Emma Hunsinger April 17, 2019 41 Comments
Book Features

How I Let Queer Literature Come Out to my Middle School Students for Me

Middle school is weird. It was awkward as hell when I was a hormonal, monstrous, uncertain twelve-year-old, and only slightly less so when I went back to teach English. So when I found myself, a 23-year-old rookie teacher, standing in a cafeteria fielding a question about how lesbian sex works from a seventh grader, I can’t say I had any right to be surprised.

Samantha Panepinto April 17, 2019 29 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Maybe Rachel Maddow Will Go Fishing With Melissa Etheridge!

Also, find out what Kristen Stewart got into at Coachella and help me decide what Samira Wiley ordered from Red Lobster for her birthday?!?!?

Stef April 17, 2019 17 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Kristen Stewart’s Charlie’s Angels Are Here, Surely One Is Queer

Plus: a new Kate McKinnon Hulu series, more from Lena Waithe, lesbians in Netflix’s Wine Country, more Derry Girls, and a reasonably confident future for ODAAT.

Heather Hogan April 17, 2019 18 Comments
Zari sings dressed in Bollywyood movie sari and jewelry
TV Show Recaps

Legends of Tomorrow Episode 411 Recap: Something to Sing About

If you thought Legends couldn’t get Jane Austen, a ghost, and a Bollywood musical in the same episode, you haven’t been paying attention.

Valerie Anne April 16, 2019 13 Comments
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