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Issues

How to Pay Attention

I take photos because they are true, whether they are true or not.

taylor May 24, 2019 23 Comments
Literature

Things I Read That I Love #290: Where Commercials For Gardasil Can Appear To Be the Most Realistic Depiction of Women on Television

Topics include Chernobyl, Sassy, Soviet food, Paul Newman salad dressing, growing up in a cult, Tony Robbins, L.A. on film and so much more!

Riese May 24, 2019 2 Comments
TV Reviews

“Lucifer” Season Four Has a (Tragically) Beautiful Bisexual Storyline

As someone who has fallen for oblivious girls, or helped girls I was crushing on find the perfect thing to say to the boy of their dreams, I found it all surprisingly grounded in reality considering it was about a demon from hell and the literal first woman on Earth.

Valerie Anne May 23, 2019 6 Comments
The L Word

The L Word’s Lisa The Lesbian-Identified Man: A Trans Symposium

“What do we in want from and for Lisa in 2019? Justice for him, or peace of mind for us? The desire to reach back in time and pull him into our present is natural because we – especially trans people – want to see her character restored in dignity, thus preserving our own dignity.”

Riese May 23, 2019 45 Comments
Movie Features

GLAAD: Movies Are Getting Better For Lesbian and Gay Characters, Staying Terrible for Trans and LGBTQ Kids’ Characters

GLAAD’s 2019 Studio Responsibility Index is here. Good news: Gay and lesbian rep is up. Bad news: Racial diversity is down, and trans rep remains at zero.

Heather Hogan May 23, 2019 2 Comments
TV Reviews

Charmed’s Finale Betrays Its Magically Queer First Season

Charmed decided to get “serious” about its magic, and along the way it forgot everything that made the season campy fun, addictive, feminist, silly and yes – the greatness of centering queer women of color in the middle of all.

Carmen Phillips May 23, 2019 10 Comments
A femme person reading a paper book outside.
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Detective Work

Queer language before we had queer language, a new generation of villainous women, why money doesn’t save artists, the best bad women in fiction, tons of translated titles and more.

Ryan Yates May 23, 2019 6 Comments
Issues

Meet the Great Old Broads Saving the Wilderness and Having Fun Doing It

Great Old Broads for Wilderness is a national grassroots organization, led by women, that engages and inspires activism to preserve and protect wilderness and wild lands.

Vanessa May 23, 2019 4 Comments
The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

“The L Word” Reboot Will Be Called “Generation Q,” Which Probably Stands For “Quasimodo”

“The L Word” reboot has a title and a cute lil poster and you can put THAT on your f*cking clipboard.

Riese May 22, 2019 43 Comments
LGBT History Sponsored Sports

Billie Jean King Is This Week’s Modern LGBTQ Trailerblazer #WCW

Billie Jean King will go down as one of the greatest tennis players — one of the greatest athletes, actually — of all time. 39 Grand Slam titles. 20 Wimbledon victories. And, of course, her Battle of the Sexes win over Bobby Riggs, which sold out the Astrodome and was viewed by more than 90 million people.

Heather Hogan May 22, 2019 8 Comments
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Foolish Child #46: Preaching to the Choir

“…is this divine intervention?”

Dickens May 22, 2019 3 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Evan Rachel Wood and Lena Waithe are Together at Last in the New “Westworld” Trailer

Plus: a Captain Marvel deleted scene, a new trailer for Tales of the City, Ruby Rose chattin’ about Batwoman, Tessa Thompson continuing to be a superstar, Sue Bird’s out for the 2019 WNBA season, and more.

Heather Hogan May 22, 2019 11 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Welcome To The House Of Janelle Monáe and Lupita Nyong’o

Janelle Monae is the mother of dragons, Amber Heard and Corey Rae enjoy amazing cuisine, Gaby Dunn holds a dog, Halsey and Joan Jett have a meet-cute, Samira Wiley wears a hoodie and more important news from this week’s queer celebrity instagram.

Riese May 22, 2019 28 Comments
Issues

The Look We Give

There’s a look I get from black and biracial women on the trail. And there’s a look I give black and biracial women. It’s recognition: “I see you. We’re the only ones like us out here.”

Lindi von Mutius May 22, 2019 12 Comments
TV Reviews

Vida’s Season Two Is a Triumph of Unapologetically Queer and Latinx Storytelling

Tanya Saracho demands more from her characters, from her audience. She requires our discomfort, our willingness to bring all of our messy selves in front of the television.

Carmen Phillips May 22, 2019 13 Comments
Breakups

50 Ways to Leave Your (Lesbian) Lover

12. Sometimes Love Doesn’t Win, Quinn

Rachel May 21, 2019 30 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Read Hannah Paasch’s ‘Millenneagram,’ Figure Out Who the F*ck You Are, Live Your Best Life

What’s your enneagram type? Hannah Paasch wants to help you figure that out and so much more.

Adrian May 21, 2019 10 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 416 Recap: Lost and Found

All hell breaks loose in the season finale of Legends of Tomorrow. Also Sara wears a Supergirl costume.

Valerie Anne May 21, 2019 14 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes: Gemini Season Dares You to Try New Things

With big ideas and a constant need for movement, Gemini season is all about connection, communication, and construction – we buzz with ideas, pour our hearts into new projects, share hopes and dreams.

meg May 21, 2019 12 Comments
Queer Fashion

Find Your Fit: The Late 20s Grandpa Who’s Ready to Feel Hot

“I love classical tailoring but I worry that maybe it comes across as a bit stuffy and boring? I want to convince myself, and ideally other people, that I’m hot and I’ve got a lot to offer.”

M May 21, 2019 11 Comments
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