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The Comment Awards Are Sex Benching

“No cops at Pride, just a group of queers eating through these thousands of cookies that I brought from home.”

Darcy May 31, 2019 36 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Sex Coven: Freeze Your Enemies

You’ll be surprised how quickly your freezer fills up with enemies.

Sophie Saint Thomas May 31, 2019 16 Comments
Sex Toys

YES NO MAYBE: Intergalactic Aliens and Magical Dildos

140 FUCKIN’ THRUSTS PER MINUTE

Archie May 30, 2019 14 Comments
TV Reviews

“The Bold Type” Gives Kat a New Girlfriend, an Old Girlfriend and a Voice of Her Own

The Bold Type’s third season is setting Kat Edison up for a love triangle — but the sweetest journey has been watching her own self-discovery as she uncovers her young, queer voice.

Carmen Phillips May 30, 2019 16 Comments
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“The Perfection” Review: Nothing Will Prepare You For Allison Williams and Logan Browning’s Lesbian Horror Thriller

If you like lesbians and also body horror, this is the movie for you!

Valerie Anne May 30, 2019 26 Comments
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BREAKING: Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson Bought a Sex Bench, Excuse Me, Coming Through!!

“Making Ashley be the one who carries the bench backwards is such a dom move.”

Stef May 29, 2019 29 Comments
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Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Womanizer Premium

Almost everyone I have spoken to who has tried the Womanizer Premium agrees on two things: the name is fucking awful and the device is fucking fantastic. I would agree.

Guest May 29, 2019 17 Comments
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No Filter: Cara Delevingne and Halsey Perform HYSTERICAL Trust Fall In Baggy Menswear!

Also: Ellen Page and a cute dog, Desiree Akhavan channels Bette Porter, Samira Wiley on a throne, Ari Fitz in mesh, Kate Moennig not at The Planet, King Princess in your daddy’s blazer and other pressing dispatches from queer celebrity instagram.

Riese May 29, 2019 17 Comments
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Janelle Monáe Is This Week’s Modern LGBTQ Trailerblazer #WCW

Janelle Monáe is, quite simply, peerless.

Heather Hogan May 29, 2019 9 Comments
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Remembering Stonewall Was a Riot: It’s Time To Meet Up For Autostraddle Pride 2019!

Happy Pride Month, loves. There is no better time than now to care for and about each other, and there is also no better time than now to organize.

Vanessa May 29, 2019 10 Comments
Issues

The Great Angling Lesbian Society: A History of Chicago’s Lesbian Fishing Club

For one group of Chicago lesbians in the mid-1990s, building a queer community meant sitting around a barrel fire in the freezing, rainy April night, casting smelting nets and awaiting a barrage of tiny fish.

Lindsay Eanet May 29, 2019 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Booksmart’s Beanie Feldstein is Queer IRL, FYI

Plus: New trailers for new seasons of Claws, Pose, and Jessica Jones; stabby Killing Eve news and interviews; Amber Benson’s playing gay again; Gentleman Jack has been renewed; that murdery lesbian cello Netflix movie, and more!

Heather Hogan May 29, 2019 11 Comments
Dating

Chill or Be Chilled: 10 First Date Ideas for When You Want to Keep It Casual

Coffee and drinks are easy, but why stick to what’s easy? Get creative, but not so elaborate that your date thinks you’re madly in love with them and about to propose.

Courtney May 28, 2019 19 Comments
TV Reviews

“She’s Gotta Have It” Season 2 Finally Gives Nola Darling The Bright Light She Deserves

“If Nola Darling is one of the most famous, even if uncomfortable, black queer women in pop culture – what does it mean for us that nearly everything about her is so closely tied to the man who created her?”

Carmen Phillips May 28, 2019 6 Comments
Issues

On the Hunt

My hunting experiences from youth to adulthood, in relation to my life as a black, queer woman of color.

Taylor M. May 28, 2019 7 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

Kristen Arnett’s ‘Mostly Dead Things’ Is a Funny, Dark Story of Messy Queer Love (also, Taxidermy)

Mostly Dead Things is the story of what happens to a young woman when her life is torn open and reset in a different pose, and how she deals with herself — and her queerness — as a part of that confusion soup.

Molly Priddy May 28, 2019 9 Comments
Food and Drink

For Your Consideration: Eating Seafood With Your Hands

Over the past four years, I fell in love, traveled many places, had my heart broken, unraveled. I also ate a lot of seafood platters. Here are some of them.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 28, 2019 22 Comments
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The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 57, May 2019

“can we call lesbian visibility day lesbian brigadoon”

Riese May 27, 2019 34 Comments
Music

Queer Your Ears May 2019: New & Upcoming Releases from Queer & Trans Artists

I feel like we have some deeper, more interesting, more contemplative stuff here at Queer Your Ears this month.

Abbie Jones May 27, 2019 10 Comments
TV Reviews

“Killing Eve” Is Going to Keep Murdering Us

The season two finale came the closest the show ever has to giving us what we want. But what do we want?

Drew Burnett Gregory May 27, 2019 27 Comments
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