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Quizzes

QUIZ: Which Cozy Season Item Are You?

Are you cotton poplin pajamas, gripper slippers, or wine by the fire? Only one way to find out!

Heather Hogan November 7, 2021 32 Comments
Ashley Paige, Ava D'Amore
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Smorgasbord

How to make a relationship what everyone in it wants it to be, repair after a fight, tell your friends you’re back with your ex, love your body hair and more.

Ryan Yates November 7, 2021 3 Comments
A plate of fries and a cheeseburger
First Person Food and Drink

Wild Cravings: The Lonely Cheeseburger

When I think of that time and place, those seven months in a Lakeview walkup, I think of those cheeseburgers, and I think of that friendship. Neither are really in my life anymore.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 6, 2021 6 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #92: Seeing The Present

How to feel solid again after so much unrealness.

Yao Xiao November 6, 2021 3 Comments
Legacies: josie and finch kiss in bed
TV Show Recaps

Boobs On Your Tube: The Lying (Down), The Witch, and The Werewolf

It’s your weekly queer TV round-up, with wee-caps on Hightown, All American, New Amsterdam. NCIS: Hawai’i, Legacies, Queens and Nancy Drew!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
November 5, 2021 6 Comments
Book Features

Things I Read That I Love #323: Pulp Fiction With a Hint of Social Justice

Topics include witchcraft consumerism, Kidz Bop, delivery workers in NYC, Ozy Media, abuse in the guardianship industry, Succession, documentaries and the hunt for a sober buzz!

Riese November 5, 2021 3 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

The Morning Show: Mommy Issues, Activate!

Laura and Bradley deal with death, outing, and Plot Devices — all while delivering Top Mommi Content™️!

Christina Tucker November 5, 2021 13 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Dating Through the Zombie Apocalypse

“When we got to the bar, I definitely thought this was going to turn into a quiz about your ideal steamy lesbian date.”

Darcy November 5, 2021 12 Comments
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #47: How Do You Taper a Crush?

The team digs into questions about a partner’s conservative family, dealing with a crush on a new friend, figuring out what to wear for your wedding (!!!), and more!

the team November 5, 2021 9 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Twenties” Episode 204 Recap: Tall Femme, Short Stud Date Night

It’s honest. It’s as honest a conversation between two queer Black women as I’ve ever seen on television. No white gaze to filter. No straightness to wade through.

Carmen Phillips November 4, 2021 16 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Batwoman” Episode 304 Recap: Stayin’ Alive

The Sophie/Ryan slow burn continues, Alice gets a new roomie, and hey have you heard — Mary spent an awful lot of time at the park.

Nic November 4, 2021 15 Comments
Legends of Tomorrow: Sara and Ava aka Avalance hold each other close while wrapped in sink
TV Show Recaps

“Legends of Tomorrow” Episode 704 Recap: Gals and Pals

Avalance and the Legends venture into the world of Speakeasies as they continue their quest to get to New York and get out of the 1920s.

Valerie Anne November 4, 2021 11 Comments
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Food and Drink

7 Kitchen Gadgets For Lazy Cooks Who Crave Home Cooked Meals

I hate cooking, but I love to eat!

KaeLyn November 4, 2021 41 Comments
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Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Reading in Front of the Screen Fire

Find out books to read if you like Practical Magic, what it’s like to cook like Frankenstein, where “old book smell” comes from, and more!

Ryan Yates November 4, 2021 4 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 618 Recap: “Dance, Dance, Revolution”

Alex and Kelly try to have their bachelorette party but Nyxly and her boytoy have other plans for the Superfriends.

Valerie Anne November 3, 2021 13 Comments
Dickens is inside of a teal blue bubble with their thoughts closing in.
Webcomics

Foolish Child #107: Invasive Thoughts

“I… didn’t order that.”

Dickens November 3, 2021 6 Comments
Gemma Whelan as Yara Greyjoy on Game of Thrones
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Surprise, Game of Thrones’ Bisexual Sex Scenes Were a “Frenzied Mess”

Azie Tesfai and Chyler Leigh laughed until they cried making out in their costumes on Supergirl, DC comic artists are receiving threats from biphobic nerds, saying goodbye to Dickinson, and more!

Heather Hogan November 3, 2021 15 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Niecy Nash, There Has Never Been a Better Halloween Costume, Not Ever, It Is Perfect!

It’s a Halloween bonanza! Tessa Thompson’s costume is weird and specific and perfect to behold; Cara Delevingne’s costume is very on-the-nose; and Janelle Monáe leans into the horror as Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde!

Christina Tucker November 3, 2021 6 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: I Tried to Think of a More Clever Headline, but Sara Ramirez Left Me Speechless

Queer dating in the (not really over) post-pandaroma, the return of the celebrity cringe couple, and have you ever really taken the time to read Sappho? Because she got bars.

Carmen Phillips November 2, 2021 6 Comments
Kristen Stewart and Dylan Meyer, who recently became engaged, cuddling on the floor in matching outfits
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Well, That Was Fast! Kristen Stewart Is Engaged!

After two weeks, Kristen Stewart told her girlfriend Dylan Meyer she loved her. After two years, they’re engaged.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 2, 2021 11 Comments
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