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This is a collage work of art. The base is a shiny, golden background of slightly crumpled looking paper. On top is a collage of flowers and green growing plants. From these plants emerge the figures of three Black women. One is in black and white and is wearing a white, fluffy cotillion gown, another has braided hair and is looking away and is in color, a third is smaller, and is glancing downward contemplatively. Written in the background are the words: "she runs her gender, not the other way around" with an eye underneath those words
AF+

By Fighting Gender Expectations, My Mother Made Room for Me to Be Myself

“I faced the difficult truth that, despite it getting me through so much, “Black womanhood” alone simply can not capture the essence of my soul, and it does not always feel like a perfect fit.”

Amari Gaiter February 23, 2022 5 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Another Day To Wake Up and Wonder Why Keke Palmer Isn’t Running the World

Also, I simply love a woman in a Big Blazer.

Christina Tucker February 23, 2022 2 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Kristen Stewart Is So Excited To Get Married She’s Worried She’ll Make The Wedding Weird

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Carmen Phillips February 22, 2022 8 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

The Casually Queer Finale of “The Legend of Vox Machina”

A lot goes down in these final three episodes of the season, including but not limited to Vex making Keyleth blush.

Valerie Anne February 22, 2022 18 Comments
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Book Features

Gretchen Felker-Martin on “Manhunt,” Martyrdom, and the Unimportance of Being Valid

“Manhunt is really my attempt to show the utility and the importance of existing in discomfort.”

Drew Burnett Gregory February 22, 2022 18 Comments
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Gender Politics + Activism

How a Trans-Inclusive Manual for School Teachers Turned Controversial in India

The backlash that ensued after a trans-inclusive education manual was released demonstrated that post-independence India still reckons with the legacy of British colonialism.

Anmol Arora February 22, 2022 4 Comments
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Five Outfits for When You Want To Feel Like the Lead in an Assassin Thriller

Here are a few outfits for when you want to feel like the lead in an assassin thriller where this time, the lead is totally gay!

danijanae February 22, 2022 6 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Gut Feelings

These are literally our feelings about our digestive systems! The team spills their guts about…our guts!

the team February 22, 2022 17 Comments
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Life

You Need Help: Trying To Live Through the Pandemic Is Destroying My Mental Health

I want you to hold this: Even though the world is kind of terrible, your life is precious and valuable, and you are loved.

himani February 22, 2022 24 Comments
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First Person

To Travel, Like Light

So much of my experience of poetry is wrapped up in time.

danijanae February 22, 2022 8 Comments
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Television TV Feature

Did The “Arthur” Finale Just Confirm The Lesbian Is A Lesbian?!?

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Em Win February 22, 2022 8 Comments
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Heather Hogan February 21, 2022 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

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Drew Burnett Gregory February 21, 2022 35 Comments
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First Person

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In the middle of a pandemic, 8,000 miles away from Dhaka, Bangladesh, I craved my favorite dish in the world: beef bhuna, a curry made of tender meat and rich, spice-packed gravy.

P February 21, 2022 11 Comments
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TV News & Trailers

Lesbian and Non-Binary TV Characters Are All The Rage, Relatively

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Riese February 21, 2022 11 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Vintage Queer Classic From Yash’s Bookshelf Are You?

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Yashwina February 20, 2022 13 Comments
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First Person

Time Between Us

My partner and I started our relationship at a distance. C was on Eastern Time. I was on Mountain Time.

Diana Clarke February 20, 2022 9 Comments
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First Person

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Heather Hogan February 19, 2022 28 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

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