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Webcomics

Baopu #105: A Good Cry

As an act of healing together, a good cry allows for releasing of tensions in our bodies.

Yao Xiao November 5, 2022 9 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword for Forward-Thinking, Nostalgia

A larger crossword that’ll challenge you AND get a song stuck in your head for the rest of the day!

brooke November 5, 2022 37 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Nova Just Wants to Dance With a Woman Who Loves Her on “Queen Sugar”

Plus updates on Survivor, The Rookie: Feds, American Horror Story, and Station 19.

Natalie November 4, 2022 2 Comments
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TV Reviews

Like All the Best Reality Shows, “Real Girlfriends in Paris” Was Ultimately About F*cking Up in Friendships

The first season also had a healthy dose of bisexual chaos.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 4, 2022 4 Comments
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The Comment Awards Are Puzzling It Out

“My first attempt was actually cara-bi-ners, before I realized the dashes were there for a reason!”

Darcy November 4, 2022 5 Comments
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Straddleverse

Do You Love Queer Books?

I want fewer queer books slipping through the cracks.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 4, 2022 35 Comments
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Book Features

A Memoir Isn’t a Self-Help Book

Author Jeanna Kadlec talks about her new memoir Heretic, the loss of leaving a life, gay Bible stories, and more.

Stef Rubino November 4, 2022 6 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #71: So You Keep Falling For Your Friends

Feeling bad because of TikTok, boundary setting during sex, what your porn preferences mean, and more!

the team November 4, 2022 10 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Causeway” Is a Queer Military Story That Ignores the Cost of War

If we allow these wars to be reframed through a queer lens, through a hip A24 lens, we will see their errors repeated.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 4, 2022 17 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword To Slay

A Friday mini crossword that’s relevant to your interests!

Rachel November 4, 2022 19 Comments
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Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Send Brittney Griner A Letter Today, “Be Her Strength”

Also: lesbian vampires in pop culture, Dwyane Wade holds it down for his teen daughter Zaya as she moves to legally change her name and gender, and what the hell is Johnny Depp doing in the Fenty show??

Carmen Phillips November 3, 2022 17 Comments
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Right The Heck Now: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord?

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Nico November 3, 2022 2 Comments
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First Person TV Feature

Slow Takes: “Pen15” and Embracing Alternate Girlhoods

Watching the first season during what I considered my second puberty was miserable. I could acknowledge its effectiveness, but I felt alienated.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 3, 2022 6 Comments
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Sex

The Gay B C’s of Sex: D Is for Daddy

The queer community played a special role in shaping how the word is used today. Are you ready to learn more? Say, “Yes, Daddy.”

Ro White November 3, 2022 9 Comments
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Literature

Rainbow Reading: It’s a Good Time To Be a Sports Gay

Let’s make like glow sticks and get cracking — it’s time to catch up on LGBTQ+ book news!

Yashwina November 3, 2022 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Word Search: Dana Fairbanks Memorial Tavern

Chilling wayyy out with a Gen Q-themed word search today!

Laneia November 3, 2022 42 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

In Drop Dead Gorgeous News, Miss Puerto Rico and Miss Argentina Are Married

¡Felicidades! and also…I’m 😭

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 2, 2022 5 Comments
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AF+ Meet-Ups / Events

Should We Have an A+ Meetup in Providence, RI Next Week? Discuss!

On Monday???

Nico November 2, 2022 30 Comments
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Movie Reviews

Cate Blanchett Is Bewitching But Her Lesbian Symphony Movie Is Tár-ible

Look, if you want Cate Blanchett to punch you in the face and run over you with her bicycle, that’s absolutely fine — but revisiting Carol or even Ocean’s 8 is a better way to live out that fantasy. 

Heather Hogan November 2, 2022 35 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Kit Connor Was Forced To Come Out Because Everybody Is Using “Queerbaiting” Wrong

As the discourse around queer actors playing queer parts heats up, there is increasing pressure on actors with queer parts to come out.

Riese November 2, 2022 13 Comments
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