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23 Excerpts From Carolyn’s Diary, 2015–2016

“Sometimes it is hard to be chill and not proposition everyone constantly.”

Ryan Yates March 10, 2016 15 Comments
First Person

Grandma’s House on Memory Lane

“As an adult, I wrestle with the stupid irony of having watched my grandmother live out her Alzheimer’s and not remembering anything about it.”

Isabel March 10, 2016 16 Comments
Book Features Money + Work

Follow Your Arrow: For Books’ Sake’s Jane Bradley Champions Women Writers

“There’s no denying that women writers are affected by systemic, institutionalised sexism in the media and publishing industries, but women who are queer, trans, of colour, disabled, sex workers, from low-income backgrounds and/or otherwise outside the mainstream are inevitably impacted more than most.”

Beth March 10, 2016 5 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor In The Liquor: My Favorite Cocktail, The Sazerac

The Sazerac isn’t for the faint of heart, because really it is only liquor (including that green fairy, absinthe).

A.E. Osworth March 10, 2016 16 Comments
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A+ Birthday Roundtable: For All The Stories We Wrote Because We Knew We Could

In honor of our seventh birthday, we’re talking about the writing we’re proud of, the writing that scared us, the writing we regret, the writing coming up soon and so many other fascinating things!

Riese March 9, 2016 60 Comments
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Make Big Life Changes Less of an Ordeal With a Lean Systems Perspective

I’d say about 90% of industrial/systems engineering work boils down to this super easy exercise: stop for a minute and think about what the main objective is. Now look at what you’re doing. Is that activity getting you closer to the goal?

Laura Mandanas March 9, 2016 37 Comments
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The Seven Most Influential Queer Girl TV Shows Of The Last Seven Years

In honor of our seventh birthday, a look back on the seven television shows with the biggest impact on the representation of LGBTQ women over the last seven years.

Riese March 9, 2016 48 Comments
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The Seven Most Influential Lesbian Movies of The Last Seven Years

These are the most talked about, most acclaimed, most beloved and most watched lesbian movies that were birthed into the world after Autostraddle dot com.

Heather Hogan March 9, 2016 66 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix: Sarah Paulson’s Favorite Marcia Clark Wig Is The Short Curly One

Ruby Rose gets a GLAAD honor, Sarah Paulson talks about my favorite show to one of my favorite people, Julie Goldman snags a role on a new ABC lesbian-themed sitcom (!!), The Family’s lesbian lifetsyle blogger, behind the scenes of Carol and more!

Riese March 9, 2016 17 Comments
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Fool’s Journey: A Tarot Reading for Restlessness

“I feel lost. I have the time, but I don’t know if I have the drive anymore to put my whole self into something new. Or even where to find something new at this point. Is finding something new no longer new enough?”

Beth March 9, 2016 6 Comments
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No Filter: Oh My God Danielle Brooks

This week, Samira Wiley is dancing with a statue, Kaki King is partying with Melissa Etheridge, and Sarah Paulson potentially gets a mystery haircut.

Stef March 9, 2016 12 Comments
Sex

You Need Help: Do I Disclose That I Haven’t Had Sex In a While?

“How do I own up to this as if it’s the most normal thing for me to have done?” Well guess what — not having sex IS a normal thing! I have the great pleasure today of telling you that you’re normal.

A.E. Osworth March 9, 2016 47 Comments
Gender

Lilly Wachowski is Trans: Filmmaker Joins Her Sister Lana In Coming Out

“So yeah, I’m transgender. And yeah, I’ve transitioned:” Lilly Wachowski joins her sister Lana in coming out publicly as trans.

Mey March 8, 2016 37 Comments
TV Show Recaps

The Fosters Episode 317 Recap: Trust No One

Monty tells Lena she didn’t prey on a female student, while the female student continues to insist that she did.

Heather Hogan March 8, 2016 50 Comments
AF+

A+ Inbox LIVE! #2: Did You Get to Make Jam?

Autostraddle’s senior editors are answering more of your Priority Inbox questions in another episode of A+ Inbox LIVE! This week’s topics include sourdough starters, liking your own comments, and emailing exes after breakups! Also? Puppies barking.

Laneia March 8, 2016 41 Comments
Gender

On Noise, Richard O’Brien and Transphobia

I’m tired of being told, over and over, that I will never be what I am.

Gabrielle Bellot March 8, 2016 35 Comments
Politics + Activism

A Tale of Two LGBT Anti-Discrimination Stances in Virginia and West Virginia

A look at the current state of anti-discrimination laws in two states, students walking out of Boston public schools to protest funding cuts, NYC protecting trans people’s bathroom access, and more.

Rachel March 8, 2016 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: Tara And Denise Are Alive, In Love On “The Walking Dead”

It’s been a pretty terrible week for queer TV viewers, but at least the lesbians on The Walking Dead aren’t dead yet!

Heather Hogan March 8, 2016 22 Comments
Sex

Bottoms Up: Sex and the Single Sub

I had to be comfortable enough to say, “I like this, but not that” to someone I’d just met, because if I couldn’t, I might get my clit bit again.

Ari March 8, 2016 13 Comments
Pets & Animals

31 Things I’ve Googled In My First Month As a Dog Owner

“Everything is brand new! For all of us!”

Riese March 8, 2016 88 Comments
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