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NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Taking The Perfect Nude

A look at “Black Queer Goddess Project: The Plus-Size Femme.” Plus: how to take a good nude selfie, how to make a sex tape, types of love there aren’t English words for and more.

Ryan Yates February 18, 2018 6 Comments
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Baopu #43: Lunar New Year

Happy Lunar New Year! Will Baopu survive the Lunar New Year dinner challenge?

Yao Xiao February 18, 2018 4 Comments
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Femme Brûlée: Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Oatmeal Cookies

“These cookies take two bowls, bake in 20 minutes, have the least messy batter I’ve ever met in my life, and based on my solo test run can absolutely be assembled in bed.”

Reneice Charles February 17, 2018 13 Comments
Television TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: “The Fosters” Continues to Prove Two Bottoms Can Make a Marriage Work

Plus Sara Lance is faaaaalling for someone, Star Trek: Discovery gets a little gayer, and Counterpart’s lesbian gets some action.

Heather Hogan February 16, 2018 26 Comments
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FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Not Today, Satan. Not Today.

Join Natalie in reviewing this rollercoaster of a week, share all your feelings, and celebrate the premiere of Black Panther this weekend!

Natalie February 16, 2018 124 Comments
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Riese February 16, 2018 8 Comments
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“I have never in my life been so simultaneously supported in my truth and called out for my bullshit.”

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Okay, Dolly Parton’s 9 to 5, but with skiing and shooting. Think about it.

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Finally, some answers about what Lena Waithe is going to look like inside the OASIS!

Heather Hogan February 15, 2018 11 Comments
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Lez Liberty Lit: Women and Power

The literature of Ezili and finding lesbians and queers in Caribbean literature, feel(ing) free, new Foucault, taking young women’s love stories seriously and more.

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The L Word

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A guide to watching “The L Word” for first-timers, chock-full of L Word trivia for repeat offenders.

Riese February 15, 2018 39 Comments
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“The Girlfriend Experience” Season Two: Bad Show, Decent Soft Core Lesbian Porn

“Erica’s #1 hobby is pouring glasses of water and/or vodka, and then drinking them.”

Riese February 15, 2018 14 Comments
Queer Fashion

4 Masculine-of-Center Looks for Any Kind of Winter Date

Warm and handsome outfit ideas for those still too chilly nights.

AC Dumlao February 15, 2018 14 Comments
Television TV Show Recaps

“Black Lightning” Episode 105 Recap: Lesbian Superhero’s First Supersuit

Anissa learns about her family history and finally suits up as Thunder for the first time! Jennifer learns to never cross lesbian moms. And I made you all a homemade Valentine! You don’t want to miss it.

Carmen Phillips February 14, 2018 18 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Lena Waithe Continues Her Quest For Global Domination

Plus some serious gal palin’ on The Annihilation red carpet, a girlfriend for Sara Lance(?), Once Upon a Time is getting serious(?) about lesbians in its final days, gay Olympians, Sara Gilbert, and a feud I simply cannot handle.

Heather Hogan February 14, 2018 9 Comments
Television TV Reviews

“Imposters” Is a Perfect Show for Lesbians Who Love Love (And for Lesbians Who Think Love Is a Lie)

Come for the gooey feelings, stay for the deception and scissoring quotes.

Natalie February 14, 2018 13 Comments
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No Filter: Gaby Dunn Is on Her Way to Steal Your Wife

Also, Demi Lovato fell into some snow and Hayley Kiyoko is STILL breaking up with you.

Stef February 14, 2018 11 Comments
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Valentine’s Day Cards For Queer Women, Pt. 2

Send a little cutie to your cutie.

Erin February 14, 2018 19 Comments
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You Need Help: Is It Normal to Feel Sexy When You Gain Weight? (Yes)

“There’s nothing better than finding out the way you love your body the most, and you’ve done that. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or weird for that.”

Mey February 14, 2018 24 Comments
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Drawn to Comics: “The Prince and the Dressmaker” Is a Stunningly Gorgeous Book About Being Yourself

We’re all lucky enough to see an exclusive preview of this book about dresses, gender, true selves and love right here.

Mey February 13, 2018 8 Comments
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