• About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
  • Shop
  • Sign In
  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles

Life

  • LGBT History
  • Health
  • Travel
  • Money + Work
  • Geekery
  • Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft
  • Holigays
  • Parenting & Family
  • Pregnancy

Etc.

  • Special Issues
  • Webcomics
  • Lists/Top Tens
  • Greatest Hits
  • Ranked by Lesbianism
  • Epic Lists
  • Shopping
  • Podcasts

  • Support Us
    • Give to Autostraddle
    • Become an AF+ Member
    • AF+ Gift Membership
    • Buy Our Merch
  • Sign In
  • Home
  • AF+
    • All AF+ Posts
    • AF+ Discount Marketplace
    • Into the AF+ Advice Box
    • AF+ Roundtables
    • Personal Essays
    • Anonymous Job Confessions
    • Interview with My Significant Other
    • Things I’ve Never Asked
    • The Autostraddle Insider
    • Some Answers to Some Questions
    • Sex Diaries
    • S L I C K Erotica
    • Interview With My Ex
    • Excerpts From My Secret Diary
    • Annual Report
  • Television
    • All Television Posts
    • LGBTQ Television Guide: What To Watch Now
    • TV Show Recaps
    • TV Reviews
    • TV Lists
    • TV News & Trailers
    • TV Features
    • The L Word: Generation Q
    • Autostraddle TV Awards
    • To L and Back Podcast
    • Boobs On Your Tube
  • Film
    • All Film Posts
    • The 100 Best Lesbian Movies Of All Time
    • The Autostraddle Encyclopedia of Lesbian Cinema
    • Movie Lists
    • Movie Reviews
    • Movie Features
    • Movie News & Trailers
  • Entertainment
    • Literature
    • Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)
    • Style
    • Music
    • Theater
    • Visual Art
    • Comedy
    • Sports
  • Love + Sex
    • All Love + Sex Posts
    • Dating
    • Lesbian Sex
    • Sex Toys
    • Lesbian Dating Apps
    • Friendship
    • Breakups
    • Relationships
    • Lesbian Weddings
    • Shibari 101
    • Tops & Bottoms
  • News
    • Politics + Activism
    • Society + Culture
    • Pop Culture Fix
  • Community
    • Culture
    • Straddleverse
    • The Autostraddle Yearbook
    • LGBTQ+ Businesses
    • LGBT Pride
    • Autostraddle Reader Data
  • Identity
    • First Person
    • Coming Out
    • Gender
    • The QTPOC Speakeasy
    • Disability
    • Bisexuality
  • Home
    • Crafts & DIY Projects
    • Food and Drink
    • House & Garden
    • Pets & Animals
  • Games
    • Quizzes
    • Puzzles
  • Shop
  • About
    • About Autostraddle
    • Meet The Team
    • Jobs
    • Advertise
    • Press
    • Events
    • Contact
    • Comment Policy
woman on her laptop
Straddleverse

We Need Help: We’re Hiring a WordPress Developer and a Systems Administrator

Please apply before November 1st!

cee September 25, 2019 8 Comments
Relationships

The Elusive Three-Way Relationship: How to Avoid F*cking It Up

A how-to guide to your first polyamorous adventure, from someone who made all the mistakes so you don’t have to.

Raid September 25, 2019 6 Comments
Queer Fashion

Bi-Suited

With the golden age of women’s red-carpet suiting upon us, who is queer fashion for?

Natasha Ochshorn September 25, 2019 7 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: What is Happening On Janelle Monáe’s Instagram

Clea Duvall, Jen Richards and other heartthrobs wear suits on red carpets, Laverne Cox and Cara Delevingne wear neon lingerie backstage, I love the Indigo Girls forever, those girls from the Bachelor show are still blonde and happy and more hot news from the week in queer insta!

Riese September 25, 2019 9 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Like You, FIFA Has Officially Crowned Megan Rapinoe “The Best”

Plus: A Last of Us 2 trailer and release date (finally!), Ilene Chaiken and Jennifer Beals are tag-teaming for Freeform, trans Latinx actress Zoey Luna has joined The Craft remake, Charlie’s Angels hype, a real-live She-Ra wedding, and more!

Heather Hogan September 25, 2019 8 Comments
Movie Features

“I’m Not a Stripper, but I Play One on TV”: Why Hustlers Won’t Change the Game for Sex Workers

If you can’t handle the titties, get out the strip club, babe. Even if it’s a fictional one.

Janis Luna September 24, 2019 8 Comments
delle seyah and aneela in their queen garb
TV Reviews

“Killjoys” Gave Its Queer Characters the Happily Ever (and Ever) After We Deserve

A lookback on Killjoys’ queer journey of found family and feelings

Valerie Anne September 24, 2019 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

Here’s What 7 Youth Activists Want To See For Our Green New World

We interviewed seven youth activists at the first-ever United Nations Youth Climate Summit about their most optimistic visions for the future. This is what they have to say.

Grey Moran September 24, 2019 9 Comments
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #9: Supporting Your Local Bisexual, Getting Your Girlfriend to Talk to You, and More!

First of all: Clean your sex toys! Also: homophobia at your day job, supporting your friend when they leave an abusive relationship, and how to start dating when… you’ve absolutely never dated before.

the team September 24, 2019 5 Comments
Music

Queer Your Ears September 2019: New Releases from Queer & Trans Musicians

Whether you had a #hotgirlsummer or not, it’s time for #feelingsfall.

Abbie Jones September 24, 2019 8 Comments
First Person Relationships

The Rituals of Love in Everyday Life

Having settled into sweet solitary contentment, I wasn’t looking for love. It found me anyway. Meeting an old friend, I was struck by Cupid’s arrow when I realized she was single.

H. Ní Aódagaín September 24, 2019 40 Comments
TV Feature

Every Bob’s Burgers Character Who’s Definitely Bi, With Receipts

I’ve studied the show, collected the evidence, and now I’m ready to tell you which “Bob’s Burgers” characters are bisexual AF.

Lisa A.C. Ryan September 24, 2019 16 Comments
Issues

Asbury Park’s Queer Community, Post Ruins

When I do hear Springsteen’s “4th of July, Asbury Park,” I won’t long for something I never had because I was born too late. I’ll let the song wash over me gently, wistful for all the people I knew who made the best of bad luck down the shore.

Natalie September 23, 2019 7 Comments
First Person TV Feature

“Transparent” Changed Me (And TV) Forever

“Do you have something to tell us?” my mom joked. It was a joke, because of course I didn’t. “No,” I said with a laugh. And I thought I was telling the truth.

Drew Burnett Gregory September 23, 2019 25 Comments
Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Queer Tarotscopes: Libra Season Is Ready for You to Lighten Up

Justice often feels hard and fast, black and white, intense and unmoving, but Libra reminds us that there are always multiple perspectives, gives us space to listen and process and be flexible in our decision-making. The deep transformations of the summer may have passed, but that doesn’t mean we stop growing.

meg September 23, 2019 8 Comments
Culture

Celebrate Bisexuality Day 2019: The Future Is Bisexual

Here’s some of your local bi+ Autostraddle writers and pals weighing in on what we hope to see in a bisexual future. Where do you see us headed? Let us know in the comments!

the team September 23, 2019 15 Comments
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” L Word Podcast Episode 209: Late, Later, Latent

Two girls, one toilet.

Riese September 23, 2019 4 Comments
Jayogen and Mia Li
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has An Elaborate Sex Spreadsheet

Keeping a sex spreadsheet, using different sex toys in different ways, the deal with yes/no/maybe lists, what to do if you feel lonely and more.

Ryan Yates September 22, 2019 4 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Sorry to This Man

JVN’s got some news, Keke Palmer doesn’t know Dick Cheney, Celine is back, Young M.A doesn’t wanna be labeled anymore, and so, so, much more! Happy Sunday!

Ari September 22, 2019 8 Comments
Politics + Activism

Booker and Warren Shine, Biden Grates at First-Ever GLAAD LGBTQ Forum

Last night, ten contenders for the Democratic nomination gathered in the First in the Nation caucus state for the LGBTQ Presidential Forum. Organized by One Iowa, The Gazette, The Advocate and GLAAD, the forum offered the most robust discussion of LGBT issues of the 2020 campaign thus far.

Natalie September 21, 2019 10 Comments
← Previous Page 1 … 479 480 481 482 483 484 485 … 1,426 Next Page →

From the Archives

  • Pity Is Not The Same As Respect: A Critique Of ‘Dallas Buyers Club’
  • The 2018 Met Gala’s Best Lesbian, Bi, and Queer Looks
  • Getting Your Lit Nerd on with Reading Apps

Latest Comments

  • Deli Twotone AF+ Crossword Is Applying for the Role of ‘Bottom Chef’ "Phew I was begining to worry ! Finished it though, a very satisfying experience."

  • bananaphone The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Trailer Accurately Depicts Art of Lesbian Processing "Kayla, pleeeease recap this, this beautiful mess will simply not be as entertaining without your commentary!"

  • Alannah Beyoncé Shifted Country Music, but She Cannot Save the Industry "Excellent article!"

  • KatieRainyDay AF+ Crossword Is Applying for the Role of ‘Bottom Chef’ "This one was hard! (positive!)"

Latest Posts

  • 10 Hot Lesbian Movies To Prepare for a Hot Lesbian Summer
  • AF+ Crossword Is Applying for the Role of ‘Bottom Chef’
  • ‘Hacks’ Is One of the Best Shows About Being a Writer I’ve Ever Seen
  • Lowkey Queer-Coded ‘Lulu is a Rhinoceros’ Is a Musical Romp For Kids About Self-Acceptance
  • ‘And Just Like That,’ Miranda Is Too Cool for the Nun She Hooked Up With

Our Network

  • Store
  • For Them

About Us

  • What is AS?
  • Meet The Team
  • Press
  • Advertise
  • Contact Us
  • Write for Us
  • Cookie Policy
  • Privacy Policy

Follow Us

  • Twitter
  • Facebook
  • Pinterest
  • Tumblr
  • Instagram
  • RSS

Copyright 2009 - 2025 The Excitant Group, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Comment Policy

Read ad-free: join AF MEDIA