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Sunday Funday Is Celebrating Being Non-Binary With Janelle Monáe

Happy Sunday! Here’s some good news: Janelle Monáe might be non-binary, Janet Mock is winning an award, Jonathan Van Ness wrote a children’s book, and more!

Ari January 12, 2020 6 Comments
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NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has Questions About The Vagina Candle

I don’t know what to tell you, there’s a candle that smells like vagina. Plus, what snacks to bring for a threesome, how to fuck in acrylics, and more.

Ryan Yates January 12, 2020 4 Comments
Webcomics

Grease Bats: New New Year’s Resolution

“First of all: TIME IS FAKE.”

Archie January 11, 2020 42 Comments
Culture

TruckSlutsMag Is Making Trucks Gay and Reclaiming Rural Queer Culture

“There are gay rednecks, there have always been gay rednecks, and there always will be too.”

Lauren Parker January 11, 2020 10 Comments
TV Lists

Winter 2020 TV Preview: Where To Find All The LGBTQ Women and Trans People on Your Television

Behold! Our seasonal list of every single TV show — new and returning — featuring a queer or trans woman character!

The TV Team January 10, 2020 11 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: “Stumptown” Puts Dex on Stronger Bisexual Footing in the New Year!

Plus updates on “Almost Family” and FOX’s Brand New Show “Deputy”!

The TV Team January 10, 2020 3 Comments
Health

Did You Know You Can Test The pH Balance Of Your Vagina In Your Very Own Home?

I’m going to be honest with you: this post is happening because no one responded to my query on Twitter.

Vanessa January 10, 2020 25 Comments
Music

What Your Sad White Girl Music of 2019 Means for Your 2020

There were a lot of very strong albums in the Sad White Girl creative space to vibe with while eating parmesan crisps in bed and watching Bon Appetit videos. Which one defined your 2019? What does it tell us about the year to come?

Rachel January 10, 2020 34 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Considering A Throuple

“The soft look in Gigi’s eyes in the kitchen scene…I’d give her whatever she wanted.”

Darcy January 10, 2020 14 Comments
Friendship

You Need Help: So Your Best Friend Is a SWERF

If you are out to your friend, or are thinking of coming out to her, and she still holds fast to her SWERF-y beliefs even after you explain how it hurts you, then you have one final choice to make: Stay, or go.

Janis Luna January 10, 2020 3 Comments
Television

“Mrs. America” Trailer: Cate Blanchett and Sarah Paulson vs. The Sex-Neutral Feminist Totalitarian Nightmare

Revolutions are messy.

Heather Hogan January 10, 2020 3 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Queer Sex Coven: Bad Thoughts Bad Thoughts Go Away

Resolutions imply giving up something, like sugar (no), or problematic crushes (pry them from my cold dead hands). Goals, on the other hand, are positive can-do mantras, such as “I will start a band this year,” or “I will find my dream femme top.”

Sophie Saint Thomas January 10, 2020 2 Comments
Movie News & Trailers

The Final “Birds of Prey” Trailer: Lesbians, Bisexuals, Misandry, Oh My!

The swagger, the sunglasses, the casual disregard for any man trying to tell her what to do! Hello, Renee Montoya!

Heather Hogan January 9, 2020 3 Comments
Health

Bisexual Ice Dancer Karina Manta on Leaving Competitive Skating and Joining the Circus

Seeing two queer skaters having fun and being themselves, while incorporating dance elements that are so tied to queer history in ice dance, the most heteronormative of the figure skating disciplines, is a thrill. So I asked Karina Manta how she does it.

Lindsay Eanet January 9, 2020 5 Comments
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Be the Meghan Markle You Wish to See in the World

Sending our love to Puerto Rico and Australia, Ruth Bader Ginsburg finally has a clean bill of health, and we’re definitely not done with Ali Krieger and Ashlyn Harris’ wedding just yet.

Natalie January 9, 2020 5 Comments
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TV Reviews

The Lesbian Storyline on “Light as a Feather” Ended Up Being Stiff as a Board

I just don’t think we’re in a place yet, culturally, where there’s enough positive representation out there to start killing off evil lesbians.

Valerie Anne January 9, 2020 1 Comment
Relationships

Take It From Us: Relationship Myths We’d Like to Bust

“We can still be together while I talk shit about your fucking cat.”

the team January 9, 2020 25 Comments
TV Lists

Classic TV From the 2000s That You Can Stream to Survive Trump This Year

An incompetent, racist, homophobic, madman is driving at the wheel of our country. But we’ve been here before. We fought back. We survived it. And I believe that we’ll survive this, too.

Carmen Phillips January 8, 2020 19 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Revisiting the Sex-Ed Revolution: On Documenting Sex Ed in Queer Bodies

What might we be able to do if we more carefully record, preserve, and distribute our accumulated queer sex-ed, and not just pass knowledge through the intimate, sometimes deeply guarded connections formed through sexual and romantic relationships? More than 30 years later, Party Safe and Latex and Lace contain clues to becoming allies to our own queer bodies.

Shayna Maci January 8, 2020 3 Comments
Queer Fashion

Basic Butch Style: Eight Hour Layover

By making a few careful swaps, you can stay comfortable in what you’re wearing without sacrificing any style points.

Holly January 8, 2020 4 Comments
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