“For some of us, that will always be our relationship to gender. I’m a woman. I’m trans. I’m non-binary. All those words feel right for me. But I’m still naked walking down that dark alley a little unsure of who I’m meant to be.”
Here’s what I remember: a wooden bowl. My father’s silver hair under the spotlit kitchen island. Hands busy mashing yolk and rind; the squeeze of a tube of anchovy paste, the clinks of spoon to jarred garlic.
Astra and Spooner find themselves separated from the Legends and have to try to stop Constantine and preserve Spooner’s future all on their own.
The Baby-Sitter’s Club will be back for season 2 in October, Evan Rachel Wood pointedly covers You Get What You Give, Gigi Goode comes out as trans-nonbinary, and more!
“I’m experiencing a debilitating bout of professional jealousy for another (deserving) woman, and I’m having a hard time with it. I wonder if there are any books that focus on this regrettable phenomenon?”
“As a person of Midwestern experience, I can say that a Lake House is supposed to be on a lake.”
To live out a love that is healthy, queer, non-mongamous has been a source of deep personal transformation.
How to orgasm using just your mind, why consent and pleasure are intertwined, how to split the bills with someone you’re dating and more.
Plus, Sarah Paulson chewing through scenery in the new season of American Horror Story as only she can, Motherland: Fort Salem’s season finale was INTENSE, and BET’s The Ms. Pat Show is turning out laughs from the most unexpected places.
It’s time for long drives, short cries, thwarted dates and exes who aren’t quite ready to say goodbye!
“Siri, can you please lock me out of Twitter?”
“Heather Hogan’s misandry gives me LIFE.” Welcome to Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: in which the Autostraddle senior team answers q’s A+ members send in, freaks out with you over exciting news and responds to your all-consuming need to share various things!
“‘Michelle Branch + leather’ is somehow incredibly accurate for my closeted self in that era.”
Rosie O’Donnell answers every question (you didn’t ask) about Sleepless in Seattle, remembering Aaliyah, Joe Biden’s Covid fails, and you’re not wrong — this summer has been unbearable.
Our narrator learns that their girlfriend is actually a lobster in a human suit. “I looked up at her — my lover, my lobster — and she leaned down and embraced my lips with her mandible.”
The queering of Malika Williams has begun in an episode of Good Trouble that returns the show to its roots and back to form!
What happens when a piss-baby man-child inside a traditional family sitcom has a wife who lives in another show entirely?
A great new horror comic, what to do when things feel scattered, a new Octavia Butler biography, the possibility of wandering in the digital age and more.
Are Ryan Wilder and Alex Danvers finally going to meet? Alex is bi in Life is Strange: True Colors, Motherland: Fort Salem and Drag Race get new seasons, Betty does not, and Shay Mitchell is playing gay again.
.“And to think, you could be manifesting all kinds with your little cartoons.”