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First Person Jewish Holidays

At the Passover Table, New Traditions Will Be Born

This year feels like the first of many years where I begin to truly incorporate my partner’s cultural traditions into our family.

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 5, 2023 7 Comments
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Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: G Flip on a Red Carpet in a White Vest Is Just So *Chef’s Kiss*

Also, Niecy Nash said “hell yes I am going to live laugh love every day” and I have nothing but support for her!!

Christina Tucker April 5, 2023 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Baking Cakes with Poets

What did the numerator say to the denominator after they broke up?

brooke April 5, 2023 7 Comments
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TV Feature

Mae Martin on “Sap,” Camping, and Finding Queer Community

“Moose are kind of like the hippos of the land. They’re aggressive. They run really fast.”

Drew Burnett Gregory April 4, 2023 12 Comments
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Food and Drink

90s Snacks I Want Back

If I had to guess, I would say that Warheads are made of sugar and that stuff called The Dip that Judge Doom uses in Roger Rabbit to melt cartoon characters.

Heather Hogan April 4, 2023 20 Comments
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Dating

You Need Help: Can I Open My Relationship and Have Casual Sex Without Relying On The Apps?

Sure, maybe some nights you’ll encounter a confident queer who makes a beeline for you and starts chatting, but you know how you can guarantee a confident queer is in the room chatting to new people? Be The Confident Queer You Want To See At The Bar!

Vanessa April 4, 2023 6 Comments
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TV Feature

I’ll Watch Anything Queer Made Before the Year 2000

I do not find my obsessions — they find me.

Drew Burnett Gregory April 4, 2023 6 Comments
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Book Features

Danny Lavery on What It’s Like To Be an Advice Columnist

“I would imagine a lot of the same things draw to advice columns that draw everyone, which is just that same impulse to run outside if somebody says there’s a fight.”

Yashwina April 4, 2023 3 Comments
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The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

Showtime Removes Generation Q From Platform, Thus Deeply Wounding Our Community

The queer community was dealt another severe blow last week when The L Word: Generation Q and Work in Progress were removed from Showtime’s streaming service.

Riese April 4, 2023 31 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

This YA Book Is a Great Queer Second-Chance Romance

What would you do if the one person you loved the most was the one person you cannot remember?

Sa'iyda Shabazz April 4, 2023
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Puzzles

Guessing Game: You Can Pry It from Our Frozen Gay Hands

Why did the primordial soup slip across the great unknown?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 4, 2023 15 Comments
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TV Feature

Autostraddle March Madness 2023: Trope-y Wives Champion – Maya Bishop and Carina Deluca!

Five years in, and this thing just keeps getting more fun! Let’s do it again next year, shall we?

Natalie April 3, 2023 7 Comments
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Relationships

How Polyamory Pushed Me to Prioritize My Pelvic Health

Communicating openly about sex and pelvic health with my partners helps me advocate for myself in medical settings.

Samantha Puc April 3, 2023 5 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Drag Race Star Jinkx Monsoon Is Doctor Who’s New Queer Pal

Tawny Cypress thinks you might hate some things about Yellowjackets season two, Hannah Waddingham wants to be mauled to death by Jodie Comer, and more!

Heather Hogan April 3, 2023 8 Comments
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Breakups Money + Work

Thank You, Ex: For Teaching Me To Save for Retirement

Bless my ex, and her bestie, because they both patiently explained why actually, there’s nothing punk rock about not taking care of your future self if you have the means to.

Vanessa April 3, 2023 25 Comments
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Queer Fashion Shopping

Spring Edit: Must-Have Accessories for Your Next Queer Picnic

Welcome to Spring Edit, a new miniseries all about giving your life a little refresh for warmer weather.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya April 3, 2023 11 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Had a Lightbulb Moment

Why did Mickey Mouse become an astronaut?

Rachel April 3, 2023 4 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Dungeons & Dragons Class Is Your Sexuality?

It’s time, once again, for a completely scientifically sound test to reveal your deepest truths to yourself and also to the internet.

Heather Hogan April 2, 2023 23 Comments
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Movie Lists TV Lists

April 2023: What’s New and Gay To Stream

We’ve got Rachel Weisz as a lesbian obstetrician in a psychosexual thriller! A bisexual daughter in “Tiny Beautiful Things”! Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies! Maria Bello as a lesbian billionaire in A24’s “Beef” series! And honestly this time… so much more.

Riese April 2, 2023 10 Comments
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Astrology, Tarot & Witchcraft

Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for April 2023

When the chaos of the world is unceasing, get quiet and listen to what’s underneath the waves.

Corina Dross April 2, 2023 3 Comments
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