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“Yellowjackets” Episode 209 Recap: And the Violence Caused Such Silence

Karyn Kusama directs the devastating season two finale, “Storytelling.”

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 26, 2023 144 Comments
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Also.Also.Also: Forever May Tina Turner Reign

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Carmen Phillips May 25, 2023 13 Comments
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“The Ultimatum: Queer Love” Recap: All the Gay Drama in Episodes 1–4

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Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 24, 2023 69 Comments
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Pop Culture Fix: Hayley Kiyoko’s New Single Is Queer Therapy Vibes

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Book Features Queer Fashion

In “dapperQ Style: Ungendering Fashion,” Queer Style Is Centered and Celebrated

Our bodies deserve exuberant fabrics and innovative design and can highlight beautiful parts of what society typically erases.

dapperq May 23, 2023 7 Comments
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Friendship

You Need Help: Should I Ask My Friend on a Date Even if I Think She’ll Say No?

I’m reading Michelle Elman’s book “The Selfish Romantic” and she talks about how we can never really know unless we ask. And I feel like this is low enough risk that I may as well ask?

Casey May 23, 2023 7 Comments
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LGBT Pride Playlists

Countdown to Pride: 100 Songs To Get You Ready for Running Into All Your Exes Next Month

Get angry, get horny, get introspective!

Julie Gentile May 23, 2023 14 Comments
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Parenting & Family

Queer Mom Chronicles: Why Is Bedtime Such a Battle?

If you’re a parent, you know how hard it is to get a kid to go to sleep when they don’t want to. I truly wish I could tell you it gets easier, but I don’t like to lie.

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The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom Is Perfect, Full of Queer Vibes

“Sidon is back!” my friend Meg texted. “There is KNEELING and a VOW.”

Heather Hogan May 22, 2023 23 Comments
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LGBT Book Reviews

Tegan and Sara’s “Junior High” Brings Their Origin Story to a Graphic Novel

Queer youth need to see a hero’s journey from queer icons who’ve lived it! And they need to be able to relate to it, not to write it off as ancient history.

Heather Hogan May 22, 2023 1 Comment
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Heather Hogan May 22, 2023 3 Comments
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Sex

How to Masturbate When You’re Sexually Repressed

Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.

Tara T May 22, 2023 3 Comments
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LGBT Pride

Countdown to Pride: Okay Gays, What Flannels Are We Tying Around Our Waists This Year?

For the first time ever here at Autostraddle, we’re COUNTING DOWN to Pride!

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 22, 2023 1 Comment
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Mini Crossword Wants to Believe

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Kelly Nguyen Dickson May 22, 2023 12 Comments
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Quiz: Who’s Your Video Game Girlfriend?

In honor of The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom, let’s get you a video game girlfriend!

Heather Hogan May 21, 2023 23 Comments
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Queer Tarotscopes for Gemini Season 2023: What Are You Learning About Who You Are?

Gemini is a curious and playful sign, one that wants to discover and share as much information as possible.

meg May 21, 2023 6 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“The Cow Who Sang a Song Into the Future” Presents a Radical Vision

This is a film that deals with the natural vs. the unnatural, that confronts a history of female oppression. Trans women are included in the natural, trans women are included in that history.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 20, 2023 3 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #112: Grieving Is Hard

Why can’t it be just happiness all the time?

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