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In the Marvels, Captain Marvel wears a white tank top and cooks on her space ship.
Movie Reviews

I’ll Spend This Entire Weekend Thinking About That One Scene From “The Marvels”

There’s the kind of gay you can see, and the kind of gay you can touch, and then there’s the kind of gay that you just know.

Carmen Phillips November 11, 2023 13 Comments
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Christmas Movie Reviews

I Got High and Watched Tello’s Latest Lesbian Christmas Movie, “A Holiday I Do”

Wow Rivkah Reyes really said I will be stealing hearts like the Grinch stole Christmas.

Drew Burnett Gregory November 11, 2023 16 Comments
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Dating

How To Send Your Best Post-Date Text

“There is one post-date texting practice the team universally despises.”

Nico November 11, 2023 6 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

A+ Crossword is Googling Vicuñas

What do you call a fish wearing a bowtie?

Kate Hawkins November 11, 2023 1 Comment
NWSL Championship preview: Megan Rapinoe #15 of OL Reign and Ali Krieger #11 of NJ/NY Gotham FC go up for the header
Sports

Watch Ali Krieger and Megan Rapinoe Play Their Last Game: An Everything You Need Mega Post

Megan Rapinoe and the OL Reign will face Ali Krieger and Gotham FC for the NWSL Championship on Saturday. It’s a fairytale ending. Both will retire as legends, but only one will finish their career as a NWSL champion.

Natalie November 10, 2023 4 Comments
Doom Patrol series finale: Casey kisses Kay/Jane
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: The “Doom Patrol” Series Finale Sails Away With Not One, Two Queer Happy Endings

Plus, a Thanksgiving flashback stuffed with queer family drama on this week’s Black Cake.

Nic and Valerie Anne
November 10, 2023
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff) Sports

It’s Official: Exceptionally Cute Soccer Couple Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis Are Engaged

Following a period of deep speculation and investigaytion, super-cute soccer players Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis have confirmed that they are in fact engaged.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya and Riese
November 10, 2023 2 Comments
2024 Grammy Nominations: Collage of Janelle Monáe, boygenius, and Victoria Monét.
Music

Grammy Nominations 2024: Janelle Monáe, boygenius, and Victoria Monét Are Queering Awards Season

The 2024 Grammy nominations were announced this morning at 8am PST and let me tell you they are GAY GAY GAY. 

Drew Burnett Gregory November 10, 2023 4 Comments
Screenshot from the show Upload of Karina flirting with Aleesha
TV Reviews

“Upload” Season Three Gives Us A Deliciously Evil Queer Character

Karina might be a little… evil? But she’s also really hot. So you can see why Aleesha might be torn.

Valerie Anne November 10, 2023
TV Feature

Top 15 Gayest Moments in Selling Sunset Season Seven

1. Chrishell and G kissing, followed by G screaming, “THIS IS MY WIFE!”

Anya Richkind November 10, 2023 6 Comments
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AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #92: Healthy Relationships and Boundaries

How to stand up to straight people wedding expectations, deal with disappointment around a potential sperm donor, decide whether or not to cut off given family, know whether you should ask your ex-boss out, and more!

The Editors November 10, 2023 2 Comments
A collage of images from Twenties, Anais in Love, Vida, Saving Face, Cruel Intentions, and A League of Their Own
Movie Features TV Feature

What Makes a Sexy Lesbian Screenshot

“I want to amend my answer and say I prefer the kiss itself if it’s open mouth and the almost kiss if it’s just going to be two chaste actors smashing faces.”

The Editors November 10, 2023 3 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is a Mischievous Sort

I lost an electron today.

Emet Ozar November 10, 2023 1 Comment
an eroded beachfront on Fire Island
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: Climate Change Is Coming for Fire Island

Preserving beaches and preserving queer history go hand in hand.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 9, 2023
UNTETHERED VOL. 9: a bed against a bright pink packground with lime green blobs
First Person

Untethered: In Defense of a Messy Bed

There’s a certain kind of comfort to me in dishevelment.

Nico November 9, 2023 8 Comments
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AF+

Running Away, Running Home: A Bipolar Queer’s Path to Family

“I drove so fast away from her, that house, that man, that job, those lost friends, those queer dance parties, that supportive church, the community I created, without a single sound.”

Em Win November 9, 2023 2 Comments
Chastity counts her money. She's wearing a Florida A&M t-shirt and a crossbody bag with a matching bucket cap.
TV Reviews

“Rap Sh!t” Season Two Finds Its City Girls Desperate for a Win

It’s no longer about stunting for the camera. It’s about putting in the work to make sure this rap shit turns into something real.

Natalie November 9, 2023 1 Comment
a group of people gather to watch election day results in Virginia
Politics + Activism

Virginia’s Election Results Push Back Hard Against Anti-Trans Agendas in the South

Virginia flipped the Senate, elected the first trans Senator in the South, and ensured the Governor can’t dismantle LGBTQ rights.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 9, 2023 5 Comments
JoJo Siwa at the 2023 Industry Dance Awards held at Avalon Hollywood on October 18, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Gilbert Flores/Variety via Getty Images)
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: At The Tender Age of 20, JoJo Siwa Has Already Learned The Perils of U-Hauling

JoJo Siwa talks about lesbian relationships on her podcast. Also: Nike submits the NWSL as a “drama” for a Golden Globe, the official Mean Girls trailer drop, Jade McLeod on debuting Jagged Little Pill’s non-binary Jo and more!

Riese November 8, 2023 2 Comments
Reese Witherspoon and Jennifer Aniston standing very far away from each other
TV Show Recaps

“The Morning Show” Season Three Closes With Personal and Professional Chaos

Which, as we know, is the new cocaine.

Christina Tucker November 8, 2023 6 Comments
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