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Health

If Your Neurodivergent Ass Hasn’t Rediscovered Plushies, This Is Your Sign To Start

Society: hard and cold. Plush toys: soft and warm.

Summer Tao February 12, 2024 4 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Totally a Spy

Can a kangaroo jump higher than the Empire State Building?

Darby Ratliff February 12, 2024 1 Comment
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Friendship

I Unicorned for a Couple at a Quirky Rural Swingers Club

I wasn’t going to turn down the chance to explore a massive swinger lodge that’s been in operation since the 1970’s.

Nico February 11, 2024 7 Comments
the following queer memoirs: How We Fight for Our Lives by Saeed Jones, How Far the Light Reaches by Sabrina Imbler, Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe, Long Live the Tribe of Fatherless Girls by T Kira Madden, Burning Butch by R/B Mertz, High-Risk Homosexual by Edgar Gomez, Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H, and Abandon Me by Melissa Febos
Quizzes

Quiz: What Queer Memoir Could Change Your Life?

The act of reading about the lived experiences of another person has the power to alter the course and contours of our own lives.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya February 11, 2024 5 Comments
Clone High season three: Cleopatra and Frida Kahlo makeout in class
TV Reviews

“Clone High” Season Three Is Worthy of Its Frida Kahlo/Cleopatra Lesbian Romance

Clone High’s third season is able to escape the confines of that dreaded “revival series curse.”

Rendy Jones February 10, 2024 1 Comment
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AF+ Crossword Would Sit on the Bisexual Sofa

Singing in the shower is fun until you get body wash in your mouth.

Kate Hawkins February 10, 2024 3 Comments
Drag race 1606: Plane Jane with poorly drawn unibrow and mustache flamenco dances with a partner
TV Show Recaps

“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1606 Recap: Come On, Barbie

Plane makes a crack about Morphine’s stomach which is rich coming from someone so desperate for curves she’s confused her breastplate for a personality. 

Drew Burnett Gregory February 9, 2024
Velma (Abby McEnany) clutches a kitten while examining information on her laptop, while her wife, Teddi (Robin Weigert), cuts vegetables nearby in the kitchen.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Abby McEnany and Robin Weigert Are a Lesbian Couple on Network TV???

Someone gave Abby McEnany and Robin Weigert the prime post-Super Bowl spot this Sunday, and you’re gonna fall in love immediately. Also updates on: Death and Other Details, La Brea, and Hightown!

Valerie Anne and Natalie
February 9, 2024 6 Comments
Pavarti and her leopard headband in The Traitors episode 207.
TV Show Recaps

The Traitors 207 Recap: Parvati Shallow Has a Predatory Headband

That’s always a tension in these kinds of competition reality TV shows: do you want to sacrifice your integrity, and win, or maintain your integrity, and lose?

Anya Richkind February 9, 2024 1 Comment
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LGBT Book Reviews

Julie Delporte Wanted To Be a Lesbian Even Before She Was Sexually Attracted to Women

At 35, Delporte’s acceptance of her sexuality serves as a catalyst that helps her understand her relationships, her interests, her experiences with boys and young men as a young woman, and, especially, her body.

Stef Rubino February 9, 2024 2 Comments
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I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else

“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”

the team February 9, 2024 6 Comments
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Politics + Activism

Cecilia Gentili Showed What It Means To Care About Sex Workers, Immigrants, and Trans People

She saw organizing and her work within her communities not as something she had to do but as something she needed and wanted to do.

Stef Rubino February 9, 2024 5 Comments
“Good Trouble” Episode 516 Recap: Morty and Alice in blue light.
TV Show Recaps

This Week’s Episode of “Good Trouble” Was the Queerest of the Season

For all the shortcomings of Good Trouble, I’m hard pressed to recall a show — other than The L Word, Pose, and A League of Their Own — that integrated so many queer characters into its narrative.

Natalie February 9, 2024
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Literature

Things I Read That I Love #334: Group Chats, Polycules, Data Free Disney, Iron Claws and Pretty Faces

Patricia Lockwood meets the pope, Leslie Jamison has a baby and gets divorced. Also: going to Disneyworld but not giving up your data, the reborn doll community, the Iron Claw, the tyranny of a mother’s vanity, how group chats rule the world and more!

Riese February 9, 2024 6 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is in the Gay Mafia

What do you get if you cross an angry sheep with a cranky cow?

Emet Ozar February 9, 2024
Masculinity in Transition by K Allison Hammer
Book Features

K. Allison Hammer Imagines the Queer and Trans Possibilities of Masculinity

Rather than focus on individual, exceptional figures of toxic masculinity, Hammer wanted to explore masculinity as a cultural form that people of all genders can embody.

Lauren Herold February 8, 2024 2 Comments
Wynonna Earp series finale recap: Waverly and Nicole embrace after their wedding
TV News & Trailers

“Wynonna Earp” Is Coming Back for a 90-Minute Scripted Special!

Wynonna Earp is bringing back Purgatory’s own bisexual angel and her lesbian WIFE for a 90-minute special on Tubi!

Valerie Anne February 8, 2024 8 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Peacock’s New Polyamorous Reality Show “Couple to Throuple” Forgets That Thirds Are People Too

Couple to Throuple wants the couples to find their forever third. But the couples are still trying to decide what they want for themselves.

Gabe Dunn February 8, 2024 16 Comments
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First Person Gender

Untethered: The Designated Girl-Son

I came across the concept of the “designated son” on TikTok.

Nico February 8, 2024 10 Comments
Sex Toy Story: An animated butt plug looks sad
Movie Reviews Sex Toys

Do You Love Porn and the Toy Story Franchise? Well, I Have Some Great News!

You’ve got a friend IN me?

Drew Burnett Gregory February 8, 2024 2 Comments
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