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First Person Gender

I’m Both an L and a T and I Don’t Want to Choose a Side

Really, I’m not sure why we feel like we have to keep on amplifying this fight. A solid two-thirds of trans women are on both sides of this so-called divide. We’re a part of both communities.

Mey March 17, 2015 50 Comments
Community

A Note From Your Editor-in-Chief

The senior editors would really like to talk to you every single day about every single thing, so we’re bringing back the Daily Fix.

Riese March 17, 2015 60 Comments
Lesbian Sex

Ela Darling On The Future Of Virtual Reality Porn: The Autostraddle Interview

“If people have a way to view entertainment, they’re going to want to jerk off with it.”

Stef March 17, 2015 9 Comments
Music

Hurray For The Riff Raff Interview and Ticket Giveaway!

Alynda Lee Segarra and Yosi Perlstein chat with us about their new album and new tour — and oh, by the way, you can win tickets to see them!

Laura Mandanas March 17, 2015 35 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue Sixteen: Shamrock Shake

This issue has so many cats, reader submitted lists, Laura and Luna being terrible/awesome and so much more!

Chelsey March 17, 2015 19 Comments
Politics + Activism

Daily Fix: Utah’s Non-Discrimination Bill Isn’t All That And a Bag of Chips and More News Stories

A boycott of Dolce&Gabbana, lesbian divorce in Alabama, a lesbian rabbi, anti-gay marriage laws and more!

Yvonne March 17, 2015 11 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Seven Upcoming Titles from Marvel, DC and Boom! I Can’t Wait to Read

What a time to be alive! Major comic companies are actually targeting comics at women, queer people and people of color!

Mey March 17, 2015 9 Comments
The L Word

Listling Without Commentary: 22 Excerpts From Brutal Amazon Customer Reviews Of “The L Word”

“I hate to break it to those people, but lesbians tend to dress like men, act like men — and look like men.”

Riese March 16, 2015 124 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Glee Episode 611 Recap: We Built This Glee Club On The Backs Of The Lesbian Blogger Community

THIS IS MY LAST GLEE RECAP EVER!!!! GET IN HERE.

Riese March 16, 2015 42 Comments
Lesbian Sex

You Need Help: Getting Better At Feeling Good

“My body does not seem to be able to handle being aroused for more than 5–10 minutes at a time… Is there any way I can retrain my body to be better able to maintain arousal?”

Rachel March 16, 2015 9 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Grey’s Anatomy Recap 1115: Heart Eyes and Earthquakes

Ben stops misgendering his trans sister and Callie finally grins!

Jenn March 16, 2015 16 Comments
AF+

Interview With My Ex-Girlfriend: Jen

“I have a very vivid memory of this one particular time. I don’t know if you were home or not home. You must have been home, because why would I cry if nobody could watch me, you know?”

Kristin March 16, 2015 17 Comments
Food Lists

42 Quesadilla Recipes That Will Make You Melt

There’s sweet, there’s savory, there’s the healthy and the sugar-dusted and the rich and the jam-packed. There’s a quesadilla for everyone in this world, and I wanna eat all of them.

Carmen March 16, 2015 26 Comments
Movie Lists Pets & Animals

Sunday Top Ten: Spectacular Nature Documentaries For Watching While Wrapped Up In A Blanket

If you’d like to spend the day learning about Sharks and outer space and wildlife on Netflix, then boy oh boy are you in for a treat!

Abby March 15, 2015 50 Comments
Society + Culture

It’s Sunday Funday, So We’re Queering Your Parades

An update about that woodpecker flying a weasel around, news about queering St. Patty’s Day, dogs driving tiny cars, important queer and trans women doing important things even when they’re LEGOs, and also did I mention dogs driving tiny cars.

Carmen March 15, 2015 7 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Has Been Thinking Lots About Your Mouth

You probably need therapy, or to masturbate, or both.

Ryan Yates March 15, 2015 16 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Garage Sale

“I am hella broke right now.”

Archie March 14, 2015 21 Comments
Geekery

So You Want To Make A Website: The Argument for Coding

Why you should learn to code, how you can learn to code, and free resources where you can learn to code!

A.E. Osworth March 14, 2015 33 Comments
AF+ Community

GET IN HERE: A+ #StaycationSpectacular Livestream and Open Thread!

This is exactly what it sounds like: a pajama party. Tune in from 12 – 3 PM EST to see Carmen, Rachel, Stef, Kaitlyn, KaeLyn, Carolyn, Robin, Maddie, and special guests like our pets and friends chillin’ out! Also, get in here and tell us about your staycation, how much you like our loungewear, and how you’re doing, because we love you.

Carmen March 14, 2015 82 Comments
Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Psyched for the New Season of Orange Is the New Black

Happy Staycation Day, everyone!

carrie March 14, 2015 5 Comments
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