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Relationships

You Need Help: You Want Different Things

You are in love with someone who wants different things. What do you do?

Ryan Yates May 29, 2015 27 Comments
LGBT History

Gal Pals In History: 8 Ways To Avoid Using The Words “Lesbian” or “Bisexual”

“God-insulting grannies.”

Ryan Yates May 29, 2015 14 Comments
The Scene

Why You Need to Go to Queer Rebels Fest in San Francisco This Weekend

“We’re here on our own terms; we’re not waiting around for the colonial gaze to acknowledge us. In so many spaces, we are pushed out, marginalized – but actually, really, we have a lot of collective power.”

Tina May 28, 2015 2 Comments
Geekery

Dirty Laundry and Comic Books: Dispatches from Queers & Comics

The Queers and Comics conference took place on May 7th and 8th — here’s what Joana Estrela thought about it!

Joana Estrela May 28, 2015 5 Comments
Food and Drink

Liquor On the Mountain: Coppercraft Whiskey and a Guide to Single-Distillery Tastings

Limitting a tasting to one specific distillery is like reading something you like and then picking up every book the author ever wrote. Becoming familiar with one distillery’s whiskeys gives you the chance to talk about their body of work as a whole.

A.E. Osworth May 28, 2015 4 Comments
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Sex Toys

Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Super Femme Sasha Harness

This is the best strap-on harness I have ever worn.

Guest May 28, 2015 20 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit #73: Stealing Pens From Dead People

Sex scenes in YA, rereading books, stealing a pen from Douglas Adams’s grave and more.

Ryan Yates May 28, 2015 2 Comments
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Daily Fix: All the New Research You Can Shake A Stick At and More News

Research on nationwide LGBT legal equality, bisexuals in the UK, racism in the university classroom, and religion. PLUS updates on your fave/least fave Republicans, police practices overhaul in Cleveland, new laws and more!

Rachel May 28, 2015 5 Comments
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Speakeasy Night At Klub Deer: The Playlist

The QTPOC Speakeasy is throwing a house party/pajama jam on Mt. Feelings and everyone’s invited! Come for the throwbacks, stay for the dance-off. We even put together a mini-playlist for you, bb.

The Speakeasy May 28, 2015 10 Comments
TV Lists

5 Things I Watched to Prepare Myself for A-Camp

In preparing for this, my first A-Camp, I’ve turned to movies and TV to give me inspiration and calm my nerves. Hopefully I made the right choices, but if not, at least I had some entertainment while I packed.

Kaitlyn May 28, 2015 3 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Tatum O’Neal Is Pretty Much Just Dating Women Now, Because Women Are Amazing

“I’m the most content I’ve ever been.”

Riese May 27, 2015 14 Comments
Travel

VIDEO: Button and Bly’s Travel Show in Helsinki, Finland

“Helsinki, despite a tricky past, is a city of glory. The architecture is renowned for its trademark minimalism. The streets are cleaner than my floors at times (as much as I hate to admit it). Public transportation is punctual, reliable and affordable.”

Button and Bly May 27, 2015 11 Comments
AF+

The A+ Bee Issue 21: Bee Sheets To The Wind

This issue includes Laura and Luna gracing us with their ethereal presences, Dear Sour with tips on the best meal to eat on a full moon, the Pretty Little Liars caught in quite a scrape, and the Twin City straddlers hanging out and being adorable (per usual).

Chelsey May 27, 2015 20 Comments
LGBT History

Rebel Girls: It’s Time For Queer Herstory Trivia Night!

Time for a pop quiz! JK, it’s more like trivia night.

Carmen May 27, 2015 4 Comments
Lesbian Weddings

Nicolette Mason Just Had the Cutest Gay Wedding

Blogger, stylish human and businesswoman extraordinaire Nicolette Mason wed her longtime partner Ali Talan at Wythe Hotel in NYC this weekend in what just might be the cutest gay wedding ever.

Lydia O May 27, 2015 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

“I Take Bullets:” Lesbian Badass Mary Kristene Chapa’s Vibrant Life After 2012 Shooting

Kristene has struggled to overcome the loss of her girlfriend, physical and mental health challenges, and financial barriers to receiving the care she needs. Today, her dream is to spread a message of hope to other trauma victims and the LGBT community.

Adrian May 27, 2015 12 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Netflix Promises Grace & Frankie Fans A Second All-Day Binge Of New Eps and Other Stories

Clementine Ford on falling in love on The L Word set, Mad Max is a miracle, Frankie and Grace return, summer documentaries and more stories you’ll really be glad to know about.

Riese May 27, 2015 13 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: OMG Look At Miley Cyrus’ Kitten

I’m basically taking this whole column and replacing it with photos of Miley’s disgruntled kitten.

Stef May 27, 2015 11 Comments
Travel

As Seen By Drizzy: Where I Went on My #SixGoddess Drake Tour of Toronto

I saw Drake in the wild in Toronto and all I got was an OVO snapback and a million photos.

Carmen May 26, 2015 37 Comments
Travel

7 Ways to Not Get Murdered By a Bear

With summer (and A-Camp) fast approaching, I think it is a good time to remind ourselves how to not be a bear’s dinner.

Heather Hogan May 26, 2015 54 Comments
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