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Housemates novel: a triptych of the cover of Emma Copley Eisenberg's Housemates, a blue tinted image of side by side Philly homes with a pink, green, and blue palette for the the title and outline.
LGBT Book Reviews

‘Housemates’ Is a Remarkable Novel, Intimate, Expansive, and Full of Sight

It’s about seeing through images and seeing through words. It’s also a love story, about falling for the way another person sees the world, the magic of realizing someone sees in a way that is different than you yet insistently compatible.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 28, 2024 4 Comments
I MAY BE GAY BUT AT LEAST I'M GAY hat
LGBT Pride

8 Accessories To Wear in June That Simply Say ‘Yeah, I’m Gay’

Signal to fellow gays that you are family. And to signal to fellow straights to GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR WAY.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 27, 2024
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Comedy TV Feature

What the Gay TV Show You’re Rewatching Says About Your Mental Health

From Grey’s Anatomy to Buffy the Vampire Slayer to The L Word to “San Junipero” on repeat, this is what can reasonably be deduced about your mental health at this time based on the gay TV show you’re currently re-watching.

Riese May 27, 2024 30 Comments
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Puzzles

Mini Crossword Is Reading Sapphic Sports Novels

So do us a favor and drop your sapphic sports novel recommendations in the comments <3

Rebecca Goldstein May 27, 2024 3 Comments
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LGBT Pride

Stick The Entire Rainbow Up Your Ass For Pride

Have you ever wanted to stick the entire rainbow up your ass for Pride? Well, you are not alone.

Riese May 26, 2024 15 Comments
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Quizzes

Quiz: Which Gay Tank Top Are You?

Are you a muscle tee or are you a men’s undershirt or are you in fact simply wearing a bra as a top? Find out which kind of gay summer shirt you are by taking this empirical quiz!

Riese May 26, 2024 10 Comments
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LGBT Pride

There Are Seven Days Til Pride, So You Have Seven Days To Shoot Your Shot With Your Crush

Do you really want to spend all of Pride pining?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 25, 2024
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Queer Fashion

Who To Follow on TikTok for Queer Masc Fashion Inspiration

I hope to help all my masculine friends out there in finding new content to inspire them.

Gabrielle Grace Hogan May 25, 2024 7 Comments
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AF+ Puzzles

AF+ Crossword Is Gay in the Sheets and Gay in the Streets

And really, what else were you expecting?

Rebecca Goldstein May 25, 2024
Station 19 Series Finale, Part One: Carina licks Maya's navel on Station 19
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Station 19’s Two-Part Finale Starts off Hot (In More Ways Than One, Unfortunately)

It’s hard to believe that after seven years, we’ve really made it to the end of Station 19 (or Maya and Carina!). Plus updates on Grey’s Anatomy, 9-1-1, All American, The Chi, and Pretty Little Liars: Summer School!

Carmen Phillips, Valerie Anne and Natalie
May 24, 2024 4 Comments
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Comedy Life

67 Questions Your Neurodivergent and Socially Anxious Friend Has About Your Party

It’s (un)officially the first weekend of summer, and so there’s no better time to unleash my super power: Thinking of every possible question, from every single humanly possible angle, that I’ll most certainly have before agreeing to go to your party.

Carmen Phillips May 24, 2024 12 Comments
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AF+

My Girlfriend Loves Period Sex and I Hate It

Advice for a person who really wants to get over being grossed out by periods, plus advice about friendship from three different askers.

the team May 24, 2024 1 Comment
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Movie Reviews

‘Queen of the Deuce’ Tells the Story of a Queer Woman Who Created a Porn Empire

A queer woman owning a string of porn movie theaters is absolutely fascinating. Why does this documentary ignore the most interesting parts?

Sa'iyda Shabazz May 24, 2024 1 Comment
Furiosa queer: Anya Taylor Joy as Furiosa covered in dirt looks back, an open road stretching beyond her.
Movie Reviews

‘Furiosa’ Is a Dazzling Blockbuster — And Also a Trans Allegory?

Furiosa: A Mad Max Saga is bound to inspire further attachment to its titular lead from queer people — especially trans femme viewers.

Lisa Laman May 24, 2024 1 Comment
6 down / 4 letters / "Everything Everywhere All at Once" actor Michelle
Puzzles

Mini Crossword Thinks All Beloved Characters Are Queer, Won’t Be Convinced Otherwise

Just let it have this one.

Darby Ratliff May 24, 2024
TV Show Recaps

In ‘Under the Bridge’, Cam and Rebecca Have World’s Saddest Sleepover

Some months have passed since the last episode of ‘Under the Bridge,’ and Rebecca’s taken center stage in trial discourse as the Writer From New York City while Cam continues to re-evaluate her relationships, familial and otherwise.

Riese May 23, 2024 4 Comments
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Music Shopping

Calling All Hotties! What to Wear to the Megan Thee Stallion Hot Girl Summer Tour

Speaking from personal experience at the concert in Detroit, “as little clothes as possible” was absolutely the name of the game.

Carmen Phillips May 23, 2024
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TV Show Recaps

‘Hacks’ Is a Rare Comedy Series That’s Smart About Characters ‘Getting Canceled’

It’s a Deborah Vance vs. Kathy Vance showdown. Plus, Deborah does a KEG STAND.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya May 23, 2024 7 Comments
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AF+

Days of Organizing, Nights of Bratting: A Femme Queer Spanks, Straps, Gets Toppy and Waxed

A writer reflects on accessing desire in trying times and the romance of collective liberation — playdates that range from toppy to bratty, a bottom with endearing nonverbal cues, a “hole-within-a-hole,” and a Zoom date with their girlfriend daddy.

Guest May 23, 2024
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Comedy Movie Features

Top 10 Things To Do While Listening to the ‘Challengers’ Score

Everything is 50% more intense and 60% sexier if done while listening to the Challengers score.

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