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Sex

View From The Top: Topping While Butch

It took me years to settle into the idea that masculinity and topping were actually, authentically my identities.

Sinclair Sexsmith March 14, 2017 9 Comments
Geekery

Drawn to Comics: Let’s Examine The Gayest Parts of the New Wonder Woman Trailer

I love reading queerness into things, so I thought this week that’s what I would do: read queerness into as many scenes of this trailer as I could.

Mey March 14, 2017 17 Comments
Movie Reviews

I Watched Lesbian Classic ‘Everything Relative’ And Whoops I’m Sad Again

“This movie is like visual Zoloft in that I haven’t worried about anything while watching it but I haven’t felt alive either.”

Erin March 14, 2017 66 Comments
Politics + Activism

Britain Is Failing Refugees, Migrants and LGBT Asylees In A Truly Remarkable Number of Ways

We’re allowing vulnerable refugees and migrants to come to harm, and it’s up to us to hold the government accountable.

Siobhan March 14, 2017 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“The Good Fight” Episode 105 Recap: The Return of Elsbeth!

Never underestimate how deeply satisfying it is to see a woman vanquish a man who has underestimated her – on television or in real life.

Dorothy Snarker March 13, 2017 18 Comments
LGBT Book Reviews

“Queer & Trans Artists of Color Vol. 2” Is Required Resistance Reading

“Queer and Trans Artists of Color: Volume Two,” with interviews by King and edited by Elena Rose, is a collection of 16 interviews with queer and trans artists of color that inspire, empower and give an intimate glance into the creative process of some of the most interesting artists in the world.

Mahdia Lynn March 13, 2017 2 Comments
Movie Features

Carmilla’s Natasha Negovanlis And Elise Bauman Are Making The Queer Art They Want To See In The World: The Autostraddle Interview

“I think just listening to people’s experiences has made me so much more aware. Queer representation was always something that was important to me, but I don’t think I was as educated or knowledgeable on just how important it is until I really took the time to listen to our viewers.”

Karly March 13, 2017 24 Comments
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Into The A+ Advice Box: Cyber-Love, Reefer Madness and Minding The Age Gap

We get a lot of advice questions in the A+ box, which then turn up in “Some Answers To Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us” — but we’re changing it up! Now, some of the longer advice questions will show up in their very own A+ post. This is the first one, come inside!

Riese March 13, 2017 7 Comments
TV Feature

(Almost) Every Piece of “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” 20th Anniversary Merch, Preemptively Reviewed

A rundown of all the things you can celebrate the 20th anniversary of Buffy by buying.

Heather Davidson March 13, 2017 18 Comments
TV News & Trailers

Tag Yourself in This SNL Lesbian Reality Show

Which kale-lovin’, overly-emotional lesbian are you?

Erin March 13, 2017 122 Comments
Politics + Activism

Be the Change: Using Your Words as Weapons of Resistance

How to use a message triangle, come up with impactful slogans, and why we need to sharpen our words to fight back.

KaeLyn March 13, 2017 10 Comments
Broccoli With Cheetos
Food Lists

11 Cathartic Recipes Involving Crushed Cheetos

Put some Cheetos in a bag and smash them with a hammer. Stomp them with your combat boots. Run them over with your car. Engage in some mindful meditation and journal about how you’re feeling now.

Laura Mandanas March 13, 2017 28 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Sunday Doesn’t Believe In Sleepovers

Finding love as a young trans woman, platonic sleepovers, your sex life and your work life, Estelle X on the future of queer representation and more.

Ryan Yates March 12, 2017 9 Comments
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday is Marching in the St. Paddy’s Day Parade, Thank You Very Much

Darlene Connor comes out of the glass closet, Taiwainese brides tie the knot, Florida Republicans support LGBT non-discrimination law, Boston OutVets will march in the St. Patrick’s Day parade, and Gabby Rivera continues to be the best writer and best person ever.

KaeLyn March 12, 2017 30 Comments
Geekery

Four Soothing Games for When You Need to Plug In and Chill Out

Games with pretty graphics and awesome sound design that go nicely with tea and relaxation.

A.E. Osworth March 11, 2017 26 Comments
Webcomics

Saturday Morning Cartoons: Sick

“Your house is more gross than usual.”

Archie March 11, 2017 17 Comments
TV Show Recaps

Boob(s On Your) Tube: “Black Sails” Fridges The Bisexual Heart Of Its Show

Make that 175 dead lesbian and bisexual characters on TV! Also: Arizona and Minnick slept together (kind of) on Grey’s Anatomy.

Heather Hogan March 10, 2017 38 Comments
Movie News & Trailers

Charlize Theron Fucks Women, Fucks With Men In “Atomic Blonde” Trailer

Join us as we discuss this trailer for a Charlize Theron movie about a bisexual superspy who kills, just in the space of the trailer, about a dozen men with her hands before making out with a hot French lady spy.

Rachel March 10, 2017 51 Comments
Straddleverse

FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Let’s Get Weird

What’s new, what’s up? Look at my dog’s haircut!

Ryan Yates March 10, 2017 132 Comments
TV Feature

Once More With Feeling: A “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” 20th Birthday Roundtable

Buffy is a queer rite of passage. Everybody’s got a Buffy story. These are some of ours.

the team March 10, 2017 77 Comments
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